There's something wrong with the way I am - causes to seek validation

Validation has to do with not feeling okay by nature, needing somebody else to validate your different parts, because

Because of memories that says and you are convinced that they are right that there's something wrong with certain aspects of you. So try to embolden those aspects that were validated or do things that get validation by the society so as to make people accept the other parts.

Validation is unsurity, if what I am is okay or right or not. Childhood memories if indicate not then, makes people who crave validation, and others who don't have memories that say theres something wrong with you, don't crave that validation. They act cause they feel that while others are affected to not upset people, cause of the belief that's there's something wrong with you, those certain parts will get emboldened, due to the mask of validation falling off.

Why do I believe that there's something wrong with me?

Cause I believe people, and if they say somethings wrong with me, even through looks and there's a significant no. Of them then maybe something is wrong with me.

Was something wrong with galileu?

Or with christ?

Or with osho?

I think these are just opinions based on if people can relate to my situation or not.

Peoples opinion are based on howuch they can relate to me.

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