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Breaking the pattern

Hello Everyone

I wanted to share a part of my story on why I gravitated towards Aaron's work.

When I was a teenager, my father had an almost deadly car crash. He was bedridden for one year and couldn't work. I still remember his face when I first saw him in the hospital. All swollen with cuts and bruises.

As a result, I took on a rescuer identity.

I gravitated towards severely traumatised people, and I tried to fix them. This only caused me heartache that manifested in real physical form.

I had my heart broken so many times.

One person was so severely depressed that I could not save him. I neglected my health and my personal life to help these people.

When Aaron shared how his mother was depressed, and he has this tendency to help troubled women, that resonated so much with me.

Aaron is as young as my own son, and I wanted to tell him, it is not worth it.

It is not worth jeopardising your own resources, time and money to a degree of depletion

to help others. You are a human being just like them, and you can only do so much. At one time, you just need to give in and surrender.

I suffer from severe separation anxiety every time I try to detach from a loved one.

One way that helped me deal with this separation anxiety is to hand them over to the Divine. I say a little prayer and ask God to protect them for me and release control. You cannot control the outcome. Step back and put your trust in Divine timing.

If you can balance and become a guide instead of a fixer, more power to you.

But please don't lose yourself in trying to fix others. It is so noble of you to help others. Still, you owe it to yourself to take care of YOU!

I wanted to turn my passion for helping others into an online business and become a full-time content creator, just like Aaron.

But I am neglecting my health at the moment, so I decided to take some time off to focus on it.

I am so grateful for all the wisdom Aaron has shared with us so freely and generously.

Sorry for mentioning you

@Aaron Doughty

I wanted you to read this.

I time-travelled to tell you this. I come from the future. And I am writing to you from across the globe, behind the oceans from another continent. Please take care of YOU!

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Breaking the pattern