Everyone in the fitness/gym space always want you to set goals. Here is some tips for you: 1: Be Reasonable with yourself, don't overdo your goals. Small and steady wins the race. 2: Think about why you want a specific goal, each time you workout/train it is for that goal nothing else. 3: Ignore other peoples opinions of your goal. it isn't their goal, they don't know your struggles like you do. 4: Each time you achieve/do something that helps you reach a goal, take a moment to appreciate it. Go smash some goals :D