When Boundaries Become Walls
I just published a new blog/reflection about a topic that’s been on my mind for a while - boundaries. It’s one of the most popular terms in personal development right now, but I feel we’ve lost the true meaning of it. Boundaries were never meant to control others or keep people out. They were meant to help us understand ourselves and live in alignment with our values. In the blog, I talk about where the concept originally came from, how it’s being misused today, and why real boundaries are less about defence and more about clarity, energy, and responsibility. I’d love to hear your thoughts - do you think boundaries are overused, misunderstood, or still essential? You can read the full post here 👇 https://lolitareid.com/boundaries-values-clarity/