One KEY factor setting you back: Capacity
When the cookie crumbles do you simply let it or do you notice and get a container to hold it? The thing is, when you operate in overactive masculine energy, something else in your life will begin to underfunction. You may tell yourself you'll figure it out, do it later, wait for divine timing, a sign to start priortizing that aspect of your life. But what that really is, is neglect. When you betray yourself in this way, you lose self trust and eventually you will be depleted in some way. Because when the pole swings to one end of the extreme (masculine), it must swing to the other side (feminine). Aka the Princple of Rhythm through the lens of the Principle of Gender. You may have heard @Irah Morffi touch on this in her content or over in the classroom👩🏫 What I notice working in this space as her right hand, is more often than not people assume that if they're not super burnt out or deep in survival mode...they're fine. This can create a sense of: 1) unhealthy detachment 2) lack of accountability 3) commitment to ignoring internal chaos 4) addiction to suppression of pain...you BUY into the frame that it's okay, when it's not, you just have never been taught how to reorganize your life around your true nature ‼️ Allow me to invite you to draw a bridge between the world of current self, and your ideal self. That way you can naturally strengthen your capacity. How? Interact with this post and I'll personally reach out as Irah's right hand. Lmk if this resonated :)