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When AI Became My Shoe Consultant
While browsing the Allen Edmonds website in search of a reasonably priced pair of brown suede loafers, I stumbled across these Randolph Verse Penny Loafers sitting quietly in the sale section. My first thought was, Well, that’s different. I’ve never owned a two-tone loafer, and the question immediately presented itself: am I stylish enough to pull these off, or am I about to become the cautionary tale at the next dinner party? Unsure of my own judgment, I did what any self-respecting gentleman in the age of artificial intelligence would do—I consulted AI and asked it to build a few outfits around them with clothes I already own. To my surprise, the silicon stylist delivered a compelling case. Before common sense had a chance to intervene, the order was placed. The shoes are now en route. Whether this turns out to be a masterstroke of sartorial courage or a valuable learning experience remains to be seen. Stay tuned.
When AI Became My Shoe Consultant
2 likes • 14d
Nice looking shoes. I have a spreadsheet with all my clothes, shoes, hats, ties, colognes, ect that I gave to an AI along with a lengthy personal style guide. Now when I'm out and about town and see an item I'm not sure about I ask the AI and it tells me how well the item will work with the rest of my wardrobe. Sometimes it even makes suggestions like "This works with your personal style, however you should consider a different color" it then gives a series of outfits to demonstrate how one color is more versatile than another. Or sometimes I ask it "Here are my plans for the day, what should I wear?" And it gives me a weather forecast for my area and a few complete outfit suggestions.
Do you wear a hat?
What does everyone think of wearing hats on a regular basis? I recently went to a local hat store on a whim and decided to try on every type of hat they had, hoping to find one that didn't look awkward. Much to my surprise, I found one. A bowler/derby hat! Now its just a matter of getting comfortable wearing it out and about. What do you guys think? Is there a hat you wear regularly? Attach a pic!
Do you wear a hat?
4 likes • May 4
I was not much of a hat. Being forced to wear a cover (military term for cap) as part of my Army Uniform for 4 years really turned me off of them. However when I discovered this community and stopped wearing a hoodie all the time and needed something to protect my head and wound up really liking flat caps. They are a bit sleeker than a baseball cap and the bill is much shorter so I don't feel like I lost 40% from my field of view when putting the hat on.
Let's start hair...
I'll be turning 42 soon, and needing to maintain a professional appearance. I have curly hair (like coily curly), and in college, I started learning some care and styling tricks to allow some length for curls without simply a frizzy fro. I could use some help in two areas: (1) What are some professional hairstyles that are a little bit longer, to leverage the curls, but are also fitting for my age? (2) What are some care and styling tips for someone with really curly hair?
5 likes • May 3
I will second CJs advice to find yourself a good barber. Look for an actual barbershop rather than some chain shop in the mall. If you are seeing the same barber everytime, someone who knows your hair and your style will be an invaluable resource.
Question
Is there a right or wrong way to wear a cowboy hat with a t-shirt? I don’t feel like wearing a long sleeve tomorrow it’s hot. The theme is cowboy. I was thinking my suede cowboy boots, jeans, tshirt and a cowboy hat.
0 likes • Apr 28
The right way is to tuck in the t-shirt to show off your belt buckle
Men's bag please
I want to understand about men's bag as a fashion item. It is surely the most utility item a man can carry. But, often, due to lack of awareness, I just carry my back pack (which has very traditional looks). And I am beginning to realize that back packs are too old school and lack that oomph. Please help me here. What kind of a bag would you carry? If you already are into this, please post some pics and details.
2 likes • Apr 10
Good question snd something I've been wondering about myself. I have two backpacks with one being more modern and the other has a vintage look being canvas with leather panels. I've thought about a messenger bag or satchel, perhaps a soft leather briefcase. I got myself a leather portfolio binder (I call it my adult Trapper Keeper) which does hold some items like documents, pens and a few other things but it's not as useful as the backpack. Especially if need to carry larger items. I have been slowly removing items from my backpack to see if I really need them or not as a way to ween myself off of carrying so much stuff around. Probably a habit from my military days where I'm stuck in the mindset of "Two is one and one is none". Maybe the backpack is overkill and a small binder or satchel are all thats needed afterall.
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