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Are Loafers Now Cool?
I did a search to see if this article had been discussed. Didn't see anything but then, how do you get the search to show the newest results first? That said, have the younger crowd ditched sneakers and rediscovered loafers as stylish? "The Loafer’s Big Generational Shift" https://www.esquire.com/style/mens-fashion/a70333866/loafer-generational-shift-trend-2026/ "“About 18 months ago we noticed the big fashion brands started to delete sneakers from their runway shows.” he (British shoemaker Tim Little) told me (the author of the article Nick Sullivan) over a steak au poivre at our seasonal and very unfashionable haunt in Bastille one night. “At the same time, we started hearing from our retailers that our youngest customers were bypassing sneakers in growing numbers and asking what they could get for their budget that—specifically—wasn’t sneakers.” Trends have their lifespan, of course. For Little this was something else. “I think it’s also partly fatigue” he told me. “As if that younger generation has grown tired of the endless drop culture in sneakers and maybe even a sense of nostalgia for a time—at least in their minds—when style wasn’t constantly being shilled at them. Buying shoes that will last past six months is an appealing way to escape that endless fast-fashion cycle.” --- I haven't bought a pair yet, but they are on my radar in the thrift store runs.
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I was just reading that article last night! It was interesting that they said the trend was loafers but the rest of the outfit seems like they're going with shorts or sweatpants which feels a little out of alignment. Though it did make me reconsider my casual shoe options. I've been looking at casual sneakers and not seeing anything I really like, by contrast I found some wingtips and Derby's I did like but they are a bit more formal than I was wanting; I'm not sure why loafers weren't on my radar already.
Letting that High Plains Drifter Spirit Ride Shotgun .
As I’m windin’ down my travels here in the Southwest, I figured it was only right to let that inner High Plains Drifter attitude of mine ride on out with me. Draped in a traditional serape, its earth-worn patterns telling stories older than the highways that cut through this desert, the look feels less like fashion and more like heritage worn on the shoulders. The wide-brim hat, the desert cactus standing guard in the background — it all ties back to a way of life shaped by sun, dust, and distance. This isn’t something you see much in today’s modern men’s style. There are no trends being chased here. Instead, it’s a reflection of the Southwest itself — a blend of vaquero grit, Indigenous artistry, and borderland tradition stitched into every thread. Out here, clothing isn’t just about appearance — it’s about place… identity… survival. And as the miles wind down behind me, I ride off carrying a little of that desert silence — and that High Plains Drifter spirit — wherever the road leads next. P.S.. I rolled my ankle earlier that day, so in order to offset the ankle swelling, I had to replace my trusted Lucchasee boots with a pair of canvas “Hey Dudes” which by the way, are really comfortable for long distance driving.
Letting that High Plains Drifter Spirit Ride Shotgun .
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It's a great and distinctive look.
Question: Why not have just one fragrance?
Hello everyone, welcome to my first post in this community. First of all, I am very grateful for the opportunity to be here and learn from all of you. I ask this because I've noticed that many of you have collections (impressive ones, by the way) of several bottles, so that's where my question comes in: why do you have several and not just one? Like, what is the motivation behind your colections? I hope to learn and read from you all. Thank you.
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Great question, and one I had myself last year when I first started to dip a toe into the idea of fragrances for men beyond deodorant. As many here have stated its weather, occasion and mood dependant. I'm still experimenting but have started to separate certain scents into seasons (Winter, Spring, Summer, Fall) and occasion (Work, Weekend Errands, Going out to a social event).
Opinions on streetwear?
To give you some context, I'm currently in college, where a significant number of my classmates usually dress in a more streetwear style. Although I have nothing against that style, I feel that I'm personally more drawn to something formal or classic. The thing is, I'm still not entirely sure what kind of clothes I could wear, as I don't want to look too formal and feel like I don't fit in. That's why I'd like to know what you think about streetwear and how you perceive this style in a university and general context. Also, if you know of any more formal alternatives, I'd love to hear them to get some style ideas. Thank you for reading and sharing.
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Lot's of good suggestions here. Since a lot of people have suggested chinos abd polo shirt I'd like to add the caveat that at your age this outfit might get you a lot of "Do you work here?"s. So I would suggest playing with style, texture and colors here. A subtle pattern distinguishes the shirt as a choice rather than a solid color associated with a department store employee. There are also polo shirts with zippers instead of buttons and some (usually called Johny Collar) that have no buttons at all; like a v-neck t-shirt with a collar. Finding shirts that are ribbed, knitted or have some texture which also makes then stand out as something other than a work uniform. I've been out of the dating scene for a few decades but in my youth I liked to wear shirts with texture because I found that women liked to reach out and touch the material. I'll also give another recommendation for the Henley, this is the secret weapon for smart casual style. It's like a t-shirt with buttons and can read as relaxed, elevated, rugged and sporty all at the same time. They can be long sleeve or short sleeve and used by themselves or as a base layer under a leather jacket, chore coat, field jacket pea coat or a simple flannel shirt. The best advice here is to undo the top few buttons for a more attractive, masculine look.
Faux pas or Faux-get about it?
I have seen at least one online source descry the combination of a tie with a sports shirt. I like the look, especially with the more casual pants. Why? The tie conveys authority and position. In my job as a school teacher, I think it is very important to set those boundaries, be at the elementary, middle school, or high school level. And I think I look pretty darn good… ;-)
Faux pas or Faux-get about it?
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I see nothing wrong here. You are dressing with intention rather than simply following an arbitrary rule. On a scale of 1 to 10 I'll give you a six-seven for being a teacher.
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