Every collector has that one fragrance. The bottle you have chased, watched, almost bought, or planned to add, but for some reason, it never makes it into your hands. Maybe it was discontinued, the price jumped, it sold out right when you were ready, or you kept telling yourself “next time.” And somehow, next time never came. For me, it is Blue Ginger Dash by Kilian. No matter how many times I looked for it, researched it, or lined up the purchase, it just never worked out. Wrong timing, wrong stock, wrong store. It is the one scent that keeps slipping past me. I have the dupe of Blue Moon Ginger Dash and it is called Moscow Mule by PARIS CORNER, but it is not the same if you loved the real thing and want it in your collection. So I am curious. What is your bottle that got away? Which fragrance has stayed out of reach, no matter how close you got? Please share your experience with us.

Ok, based on what is available today and you are only allowed to have or buy 5, what are they?

Ok, I searched the posts and hadn't seen one of these for quite some time, so I apologize if I missed one. I'd like to hear what our current 10/10 fragrances are. I know our noses change over time, and we are always making new discoveries, so let's hear it. What are your holy grails?

Once you start exploring niche perfumery, you realize something fast: the “gender” of a fragrance is mostly a marketing idea. Historically, perfumes weren’t even gendered — that came later when brands needed categories to sell to the masses. Niche houses don’t care about that. They create scents based on mood, emotion, artistry, and ingredients — not stereotypes. Rose, vanilla, oud, tobacco, florals, woods… none of these notes belong to men or women. They belong to whoever enjoys wearing them. The deeper you go into collecting, the more you stop asking “Is this masculine or feminine?” and start asking the only question that actually matters: “Do I love how this smells on me?” So Brothers and Sisters what was the fragrance that made you challenge your limits and just enjoy? For example some brother love Black Opium by YSL, Black Orchis/Cafe Rose by Tom Ford or Sisters who love wearing male fragrances.

NOTE: Instead of a Scent Of The Day, I am introducing a fragrance I wore for going out on a date, attending a party, or simply enjoying the evening. Thanksgiving Day is the start of the holiday season that will last until January 6 (Epiphany), including such festivals as Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, New Year's Eve and New Year's Day. Since there are so many events packed into this period -- dinners, social gatherings, religious ceremonies, even shopping -- I have decided to dedicate two fragrances just for those events. CHRIS COLLINS SWEET TABOO TOP NOTES: clary sage, cardamom, cinnamon MIDDLE NOTES: geranium, cacao, coffee BASE NOTES: benzoin siam, tonka bean, vanilla, musk A spicy gourmand, I wore this fragrance on Thanksgiving Day for our family dinner and evening movie. Sweet Taboo leans into the classic, comforting and celebratory aromas associated with the holidays, but with an upscale, slightly seductive twist. The cinnamon, cardamon and vanilla scream cozy holiday treats as associated with cookies, coffee shops, and spiced baked goods. Moreover, the warming, gourmand nature of Sweet Taboo is perfect for Thanksgiving gatherings, Christmas morning and general cold-weather comfort. The cardamom, cinnamon and vanilla create a sweet, spicy profile that feels familiar yet luxurious, while the coffee and cacao add a nice roasted, dark depth. It has a high-quality "expensive dessert" feel. Perfect for daytime, casual gatherings and general festive warmth (think Thanksgiving dinner, cozy weekends, or Christmas shopping). CHRIS COLLINS DANSE SAUVAGE TOP NOTES: cognac, plum, saffron MIDDLE NOTES: pepper, chili, rose BASE NOTES: cedarwood, vanilla, oud A dark and complex fragrance, I wore this scent at the first holiday party held two nights after Thanksgiving. Danse Sauvage has an intoxicating opening with an assertive blend of sweetness, warm spice and woods. The primary notes I discern are nutmeg, cedar, cognac and plum, with the cedar and cognac being the most prominent.