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Introduction
Hi, my name is Lori Lynn Greene. I grew up in a large family with little guidance, so I had to figure things out on my own. I’ve come to realize that I became the person I needed. My goal in life is to ensure high-stakes decisions are made well, because they make the most difference in the world. At the age of 60, I’ve seen how one decision can cause a lot of pain. What I HAVE I have decades of leadership, administrative, and business experience, along with a solid visual way to make difficult decisions that don’t have easy answers. I understand how decisions affect finances, relationships, and health and well-being long-term. What I WANT I want to be in the right rooms with people who are making high-stakes decisions and are open to thinking through them well. What I NEED What I need is to build meaningful relationships that are mutually beneficial.
Introduction
0 likes • Mar 28
Welcome! Some great conversations happen here. 😀
When Your Brain Goes "No Thank You" in the Middle of a Hard Conversation
Something that doesn't get talked about enough in entrepreneurship spaces: what happens to some of us when we're under pressure or in conflict. I don't get louder. I don't argue better. I lose access to words. The thoughts are there. The feelings are there. But the words? Gone. My brain just... opts out. And then three days later, I have the perfect response fully formed in my head, and it was Tuesday, and now it's Friday. For a long time I didn't know why this happened. I was late diagnosed — autism and ADHD both — and spent most of my life burning out, checking out, and not even knowing what I needed, let alone being able to ask for it. The word-loss was part of that. So was the confrontation avoidance that came with it. Because here's what happens when you can't access words under pressure: you start avoiding the situations that might require them. Conflict with a client. A difficult conversation. Someone pushing back on your price. A troll in the comments. You know, logically, that you can handle it. But your nervous system remembers the times you couldn't, and it starts making decisions before you do. I literally teach people not to fear trolls. I know that a hater in your comments means your reach is growing — that critics show up faster than fans do, and both are signs something is landing. I know this. I've said it out loud more times than I can count. And I still fight that gremlin almost daily. That's not a contradiction. That's what it looks like when you're doing the work — knowing the truth AND feeling the fear at the same time, and choosing to act anyway. The thing I'm still learning to trust is that the work I've done on myself is strong enough to hold. That I can have a hard day, a busy week, a challenging client, and not lose myself the way I used to. That I've actually changed. That finding my joy again wasn't a fluke. If you relate to any of this — the word loss, the avoidance, the knowing-better-but-still — you're not broken and you're not behind. You're probably just running a nervous system that learned to protect you really aggressively, and now you're teaching it that it doesn't have to anymore.
3 likes • Mar 24
@Christina Hooper When I moved from being a behind the scenes VP to buying my company I had to go out to networking events. I was the one standing in the corner going "is it over yet"? I joined Toastmasters so that I could think on my feet. I learned it through the weekly meeting and Table Topic section of the meeting. You're given a question or topic and then have to speak for 1-2 minutes on it. It really trained my brain to put thoughts together in a coherent, calm way. My most difficult conversations are with employees that have performance issues. It's never easy to have those conversations.
2 likes • Mar 24
@Christopher Lozano A big part of Toastmasters is the evaluation portion for each speech you give. We call it the sandwich method - what you excelled at, what you might think about doing different, and then ending on a positive note. At one point i was in 3 clubs, which was really interesting. I kept cutting back until I took a leave last August so I'm no longer active. I was a member for 13.5 years. My home club is 100% virtual and has members from around the country and some international people too. Super interesting to meet all these different kinds of people. You have to shop the clubs though as not all are the same because it does depend on the members' personalities. It's free to visit a club to try it out. toastmasters.org - Find a Club.
By The People, For The People to Profit Share with the People ^_^"
A'ho Kasim & a Howdy to everyone — Christopher here. Long-time follower of Kasim’s work, first time inside 3X. I’ve spent decades starting, losing, rebuilding, and learning—across business, military service, and even a chapter in Hollywood (part of the Oscar team behind Benjamin Button). Each time I lost everything, I came back sharper, however, starting from nothing. Now at 62, I’m building again—but smarter, with the backing of a few viral potential products, heavily tested prototypes. I recently completed the START.COOP incubator, where I’ve been developing a new model that combines high-performance hiring (like Kasim teaches with GREAT HeART) with long-term ownership structures. The goal: attract top talent, pay them well, and give them a path to actually own what they help build. Why I’m here with great respect for Kasim: To refine that model, learn from the best, and execute at a higher level than ever before. Start making friends, building relationships, and creating win-wins, the very essence of Cooperative Business, by the people for the people, profit sharing with the people. Big believer in this: You don’t lose when things fail—you lose when you stop rebuilding. Looking forward to learning and contributing with you all. Sincerely, Your Veteran Artist Entrepreneur Christopher Xavier Lozano
By The People, For The People to Profit Share with the People ^_^"
2 likes • Mar 24
I tell myself there is no failure only success or lessons. Can't wait to see where you go with your new adventure. Cooperative Business is so important to not only grow but to enjoy the journey along the way. I've found it's so hard to succeed when you try going it alone.
Introduction
Hi. I'm Renee. I just joined. I've been with my business for over 33 years and have seen a lot of change in that time. I see the writing on the wall for how our business model is changing so I need to pivot the business in order to survive the changes with AI. I want to pivot the business to one that utilizes the AI tools with our expertise. I'm looking forward to learning and hopefully contributing value too.
1 like • Mar 21
@Andy Black Brilliant!
1 like • Mar 21
@Christina Hooper More about using AI to streamline a new business model of helping people decide if they want to start a business, how to start a business and then how to manage a business. Once we get good at that, I've found there is a need for solopreneurs to have all the business stuff done for them so they can focus on what they're good at, like coaching.
👋Long term giver saying hello
Hi all. I’ve been in a forum for 10 years, posting 21,000 times and creating 400+ threads. Being a "long-term giver" has helped me in ways I never foresaw, and it’s the foundation of how I view business. For those trying to "validate a need" (I kinda hate that phrase), forums and groups are the ultimate resource. People group themselves by interest and chatter about their problems. I’ve produced a ridiculous amount of evergreen content just by noticing where I repeat myself and creating a "solution" thread to point to when the same question pops up later. . In case you didn't spot the parallel to building a business: 1) I find and engage the market (aka "help people") - where they are already. 2) I respond to questions and problems people *already* have. 3) I immediately help people instead of naval-gazing or "building stuff" in my bat-cave. 4) If I find myself answering the same question over and over again - I go create a solution I can point people to all the time. 5) Before I create the thread (solution) I already know it will help lots of people - because it's a need many people already had. 6) The content (solution) was created out of solving real-world problems, rather than solving problems I think people have. It's battle-tested. . This is super important: Don't just help people with what you sell. I'm a Google Ads guy and less than 10% of my threads in that forum are about Google Ads. I try not to even mention it now-a-days and just respond when tagged. You want to be seen as a PEER first in any community - as someone helpful, with their own quirks, and their own hopes, fears, worries, and dreams... the same as everyone else. They'll naturally find out over time that you do XYZ, and if you help people with XYZ too (and are seen helping people with XYZ) then you'll start getting known as "The XYZ Guy/Gal", and tagged whenever that subject comes up. . Whenever someone's stuck in business I just ask: Who have you helped? Why create a blog and try and find out what content helps people and resonates with people when you can go help people immediately in a busy forum or Facebook group?
2 likes • Mar 12
Great post Andy. Just curious how much time you spend doing these posts per week. I've always had a mental block that it was a lot of time. Also I don't trust myself going onto some platforms as it's a black hole of time for me - lol.
1 like • Mar 13
@Andy Black That's really wonderful!
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Renee Fink
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I’m the CEO of ClearPath Workforce Management whose business model of clients is going extinct due to AI.

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