Asalaamu’alaikoum, looking for some communication advice regarding messaging potentials (with chaperone in chat monitoring alhamdulillah). How long should I wait for a response before I cut it off ? Should I express the want for consistent communication and then if it continues (late replies) cut it ? I’m very intentional about my search so I make a bit of time daily to check for responses and reply, thus it’s annoying when the same curtesy isn’t returned. I understand being busy but when 24+ hours go by it reads as lack of care.

Leadership in marriage isn’t control. It’s responsibility. One sister shared, “What made me say yes wasn’t his confidence. It was his gentleness.” A husband should feel safe to follow because he follows Allah first. Strength and softness can exist together. What qualities make you feel emotionally safe with a man?

Salam sisters💞. Having done the second day challenge and reading the feedback on turning my trauma into boundaries, there is something that has been on my mind. I do not find getting to know someone online good for me, as it can easily go wrong. I have been thinking of making it a requirement for interested guys to actually come and get to know me with a mahram around me, face-to-face, to be able to properly gauge them and connect. I want direct online communication only when necessary and when no other means are available. Has anyone had such an experience, and what are your thoughts on this? It is very normalised to get to know someone for marriage just through chats or long phone and video calls, even without the parents being involved. In my view, marriage is a sacred form of worship, and disobeying Allah to get to marriage just does not make sense. I am aware that some people have a mahram in a GC to get to know the person or with the girl on a video call. What worries me about this is the availability of my contact with the guy and how easy it is for Shaytan to play games on people with small steps and ruin something that could have been pure, and for the sake of Allah.

Take a breath before you read this one. Today we are going somewhere real 🤍 Start by journaling this privately.. and if you feel called to, share it with us in the COMMENTS below 👇 "The part of my story I've been hiding or apologizing for is: __________. The way I could start owning it as a strength is: __________." You do not have to share if you are not ready.. journaling it privately is just as powerful and valid 🌸 But if you do choose to share.. know that this is the safest, most loving space to do so. Every sister here is on the same journey and we honour your bravery deeply 🤲 ⚠️ IMPORTANT - only sisters who comment below are eligible to win the 1-on-1 coaching session with Mindful Muslimah 🏆 Today we are not rewarding activity. We are rewarding BRAVERY 💪 Every single sister who chooses to share will be seen, acknowledged and celebrated 💜 You are not your story sis. You are the strength that came from it 🌸 Drop your answer below whenever you are ready 👇

We are almost at the finish line and today's task is one of the most powerful ones yet 🔥 Complete all three sentences and drop your answer in the COMMENTS below 👇 "The fear I have about picking the wrong man is: __________. The skill I would need to feel confident about that is: __________. One question I wish I knew how to ask a potential spouse is: __________." ⚠️ IMPORTANT - only sisters who comment below are eligible to win the 1-on-1 coaching session with Mindful Muslimah 🏆 Today we are rewarding the most SPECIFIC fear named and the most SPECIFIC skill identified 💪 Do not be vague sis. The more real and detailed you are, the more this exercise will actually help you, and the better set up you will be for tomorrow's Day 5 finale 👀 ✨The Day of Winner Announcement! This is your real-time window into exactly what you need. Use it 🌸 We read every single comment and we cannot wait to see what comes from your heart today 🤍 Drop your answer below! 👇