I’m currently in an Air B&B. But I’m back in the marital home every day! We have 3 kids, the youngest is 3yo. I need to be there everyday to look after the kids when she works. She was the obviously suffocating, wanted space. But it’s impossible. When the shit hit the fan 3/4 weeks ago, I was constantly on at her, trying to get her to change her mind. Pestering, acting needy. Now I’m ghosting her a bit. Giving her the space she asked for. But I’ll get random texts “have you seen the boy’s school tie” “have you seen my pink cup” etc. obviously trying to instigate conversation