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🔥 Thursday Night Fireside Chat: Inside the Mansion
🕖 This Thursday at 7 PM EST Brothers, this week’s fireside chat is one you won’t want to miss. We’re diving into a powerful theme called “Inside the Mansion.” If you’ve ever felt trapped inside your own head after betrayal, replaying memories, locking away pain, or avoiding emotions that feel too heavy to face, this conversation is for you. We’ll unpack what “Inside the Mansion” really means and how it connects to the process of coping and beginning to heal after infidelity. Each “room” in this mansion represents a part of your mind — fear, anger, regret, shame, even the trauma of betrayal itself. Together, we’ll start turning the lights back on. This isn’t just a discussion. It’s an invitation to step out of isolation, connect with other men who understand, and begin reclaiming the rooms inside your own mind. 💬 Join the Conversation: Go to the calendar tab in our community and click on “Community Fireside Chat” to access the calendar link and meeting info. Come ready to listen, reflect, and share if you feel led. You are not alone in this house, brother. Paul
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Hey Paul, this sounds like a terrific thing! I unfortunately will not be able to participate, although I would really like to. I’m gonna be in a hunting camp so I’m not sure on reception. If I have reception and the ability to jump in i will. Will you be recording it?
🔥 The 3 Stages of Recovery After Infidelity
Hear. Heal. Help. Brother, if you’re here, it means life as you knew it has been turned upside down.The pain, confusion, anger, and devastation can feel unbearable.You’re not alone — and you’re not broken beyond repair. Healing after betrayal isn’t a single step. It’s a process.Inside this community, we follow a simple yet powerful path: Hear. Heal. Help. 🧠 1. HEAR – Understanding What You Feel and Why You Feel It Before you can rebuild, you have to understand what’s happening inside you.Most men feel completely lost after betrayal — angry, confused, numb, or destroyed.You’re not crazy. You’re experiencing trauma. In this stage, you’ll begin to hear what’s happening in your mind, body, and emotions.You’ll learn: - What you feel — grief, anger, confusion, shame, emptiness - Why you feel it — what trauma does to your brain and nervous system - How to start calming the chaos inside your body and mind This is where you start breathing again. It’s where understanding begins. Goal: Move from emotional chaos to awareness and grounding. 💪 2. HEAL – Rebuilding Yourself, Step by Step Healing doesn’t happen by accident. It happens through intention and structure.This stage is all about rebuilding you — the man behind the pain. You’ll follow a step-by-step roadmap designed to help you heal as an individual.This is where the Forge Bootcamp and Self-Paced Healing Course guide you through proven tools to stabilize, strengthen, and rebuild. If reconciliation is part of your story, this stage can also include the Roadmap to Reconciliation, where you’ll learn how to rebuild trust and connection together. In this stage, you’ll: - Learn to regulate emotions and manage triggers - Rebuild self-worth and masculine identity - Process trauma in healthy ways - Set boundaries and rediscover purpose Goal: Move from surviving to rebuilding — becoming grounded, confident, and whole again. ⚒️ 3. HELP – Turning Pain into Purpose
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The chaos state is a tough one to get out of. Just when you think you made it through, something hammers you back in. But that’s why healing isn’t linear. But each regression builds something in you that allows you to come back quicker, better and stronger.
Introductions
So glad each one of you is in this group. This is a place where we can heal as men, as husbands, as fathers without shame, without judgment. I’m sorry you’re having to navigate this journey, but you are not alone. Feel free to drop a quick intro below let us know where you’re from!
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Hey all, I’m Marty. I’m from Canada. I know many of you through Marco Polo and I’m happy to have this new forum here. Going through this journey with you all. Been working on my healing with Paul since this summer. It’s been an immense help. As big a help is all the guys here in the Forge, their stories, their support, and their advice. Very blessed to be here with you all. Thank you.
Thank you
Hey Paul, thank for creating another venue for us. I know it’s said often, but I really hope you understand how much you are appreciated man. For being you, for bringing us together, for your experience, for your direction, assistance, guidance, and your ear to hear our venting. You are a good man. Love ya brother. Thank you.
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Marty….here for healing from infidelity, brotherhood and to help when/where I can.

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