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I wish I find my place in this niche to live more freely and independent - i am not working as a coach yet, because I don’t exactly how to start to bring together the bits I own.. 😏 someone an advice? Someone else new in the coaching business? 🤔

I take responsibility for everything in my life 🌸 I trust that everything comes as it needs and life gives me what I need to grow 🌱 in the right place at the right time ..

What you are not changing, you're choosing. Be aware of that 🙌💗

Sometimes, you’re just not that excited about the task you need to do, right? When the reward for doing something seems distant or irrelevant, it’s hard to find the motivation to start. It feels like a chore. First of all, this is the perfect time to shortly speak about the motivation vs discipline debate. Some people think you need motivation to do things, some people think motivation is crap you need discipline. The reality is that you need both of them. Nobody, and I mean nobody can work hard for years without a drop of motivation. And nobody can be motivated to work hard for years. You need both. And these kinds of tasks need you to be disciplined. But you do not have to just rely on the discipline and if you are not that disciplined, it is will draining hard. You can find a way to connect the task to something you care about. Link it to your larger goals. Visualize what achieving that will do for your life. It might not feel exciting now, but keep your eyes on the bigger picture. If the task becomes about something you desire so deeply, even if you don’t like it. You’ll do the thing. Yes, it feels it is like discipline because it is. Also, if you don’t have one, have a solid and clear goal. How do you do that? The best practice in my personal experience is to just reflect on yourself. Just sit down, no phone, social media, games, any distractions. Sit there and think about who you are, what you want to do, what you like to do, do you really enjoy the things you do daily at the moment, what you need to do to get where you are, etc. Do this for 3 days straight whenever you have time. This means whenever you don’t work or eat or sleep. Still no distractions, no cheap dopamine activities, nothing! If you can do this simple but boring thing, your future self will be grateful to you. Take care 👋🏻 and be sure to not procrastinate ⏳