Fellas, there's a let's say, "subdued" Halloween party in the office today, so I'm doing something I've done before around this holiday: dress in all-black. I know, I know, I could've maybe added an orange (or purple? Or specialty themed?) pocket square l, but I just like the all-black effect. (Also had to go with black cap toe boots since it's been raining, no, POURING rain since before sunrise today, in my region of the states (if the sun even came up; it's so damn gloomy 😜). Anyway, stay sharp guys! 👍🏾🫡

A little extra chilly up here in my region, so it was definitely time to layer up with a sweater over the navy/blue checkered tie and light grey dress shirt. Also layered a little bit more 😉 in case this office furnace can't do the trick. 👍🏾

Good morning gentlemen, You know recently I have been so impressed in reading and hearing about gentlemen in this community that are taking on different task in their journey of being a gentleman. I have read and seen the product of some amazing gentlemen doing things that at one point we all considered women’s work or beneath our status as men. I would have never thought that I would be in a forum listening to men talk about outfits, fragrances, ( which we wouldn’t even use that word we would say colognes), sewing, cooking, baking, repairing shoes. But here we all are, discussing, encouraging others, providing advice, discussing deals on purchasing items, talking about fragrances and when is a good time to wear certain ones. And you know what? The sad part is there are so many former us out there that are “Stuck on Stupid”). They think that these things make them feel less of a man, when in reality this makes you more of a gentleman because you have worth, integrity, creativity, and respect. For me I began cooking and learning how to cook different things other than my famous peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. I learned how to mend and repair clothing to some extent, I learned how to strip and polish shoes, learning through the brotherhood of fragrances what are notes, and when are the best times to wear certain fragrances. I have gone back to writing in cursive, and reading more books and journaling daily. All these things that I use to think would make me weak and less of a man. Now here I am with so many great gentlemen who inspire me and give me inspiration to want to learn and grow. I looking forward to taking sewing classes, more cooking classes, wine testing, learning more about pipe tobacco and cigars, learning more about jazz and classical music, deeper into the world of fragrances, and fashion. Gentlemen, do not let that caveman mentality prevent you from becoming a renaissance gentleman. Grow, learn, explore, expand your horizons, and then share with others. Find someone around you that you can mentor and disciple into becoming a gentlemen.

Gentlemen, gentlemen, gentlemen... Last Monday, my family has grown by one more. An adorable baby girl (the first out my now 4 kids, and the first granddaughter to my wife and I's parents). Let me say guys that while I haven't seen every corner of the globe, or some everything there is to do in life, I have seen some absolutely beautiful things... She's at the top of the list. To all the fathers of daughters: while my sons have helped me discover and fortify my pride, strength, and resiliency, I certainly get it now... There's a part of my heart and soul I didn't previously know existed, thanks to her ❤️.

Gentlemen, I recently celebrated my 40th birthday (last week Friday). After celebrating in a rather low-key fashion with my closest family members, I took time, A LOT of time to look over my ongoing journey in my shoes (and often suits 😎). For those of you who have already passed the milestone, I'm beyond blessed to join you. And for those yet to get here, keep ascending for your growth and achievements in life are certainly rewarding. Salute to you fellas, young and old, far and near 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽