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17 contributions to The Gay Men's Table
Vote for ME ☺️🙏🏼
Help me lead my own podcast produced by @iheartradio take home $25,000, and be a guest on an episode of On Air with @ryanseacrest @vote.tophost About me, I'm a funny German 🇩🇪 living in LA 🇺🇸, curious and good at asking questions. I'm very likable (hopefully) & love to talk about that "life happens for us"! As a kid I was always talking in school, I could never up. My teachers hated it. School was just so boring and I had so much to share, especially with the girls. My teacher called me "The Stallion" & because I was always surrounded by a bunch of girls. Well, I guess he didn't know that the stallion liked stallions So here I am, using my gift to connect with people and bring some light and laughter to this world. I always say life happens for us not to us. Rephrasing the things in life we experience and see it in a different light. That's what the podcast will be all about, with guest like you and me and the day to day things life throws at us. - The ex who cheated was a blessing, NEXT! - The job you didn't get opened a door for a different job you were waiting for. - The red light you always hit on your way to work, well maybe leave earlier next time so you don't stress about that you'll be late 😎 Click the link to vote for me ☺️🙏🏼 http://tophost.org/2026/frederik-schaaf
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1 like • 16d
Do we get to vote multiple times? (I want to buy more votes so I will have to wait till Monday to do so)
1 like • 7d
You’re in fourth place still even with donations 😭😭😭😭
Coffee Hour 10/05 at 6pm PDT
ALL CALLS are open for EVERYONE!!! Todays Topic: How can we make our dreams come true? - finding love - making the money we dream of - living where we want live - connecting with like minded people / friends ... - healing from our past it at all comes down to one thing, and that what I want to share in todays call! Who's joining tonight? ☺️
1 like • 17d
Ooooo sounds like fun 🤩
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@Frederik Schaaf it is always fun! 🤩
CANCELED Coffee Hour Wednesday 11am (09/01)
Sorry guys, no coffee hour today. I need to restructure our calls a little as my work schedule has picked up and I want to be present on our calls rather than half asleep! I tend to make the calls bi-weekly Mondays and Wednesdays but I’ll keep you posted about that. Sorry about the last minute cancellation but I need to fill my cup first so I can show up the way I want to ☺️
1 like • Sep 9
quick clarification: are you thinking about switching it to a bi-weekly(every other week) schedule or twice a week?
0 likes • Sep 10
@Frederik Schaaf sounds like a great plan! I wish I could attend more meetings but Mondays are no meeting days
Expert Call with Noor (Licensed Therapist)
As part of our expert invitation series — where members with relevant backgrounds can step up to offer something meaningful to the group — we're grateful to welcome Noor this upcoming week (Monday 6pm and Wednesday 11am PDT). Noor is a licensed therapist & certified transformational coach, specializing in parts-based work, drawing on Inner Relationship Focusing (Focusing), Internal Family Systems (IFS), and Inner Bonding. He'll be guiding us through an inner journey with our "gay part" — offering a brief introduction to this framework, guiding an inner journey, and opening the space for personal reflection and group sharing. Please bring a journal or notebook, and come ready to meet your gay self across the landscape of your history! This can be a genuinely healing and connecting experience. Noor will be offering this in both meetings next week — so, if you plan to attend both, know that each visit may open different doors or invite you deeper.
2 likes • Jun 14
Let’s gooooo Noor 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
Monogamy vs Ethical non Monogamy
What do you believe in? I would like to hear your theory and why it works out for you ☺️
2 likes • Apr 14
@David Lima thank you 🙏 This is definitely something I have been talking, thinking, and everyone and again writing about for almost 15 years. Not all pieces have this quality just saying
1 like • May 7
@Scott Cheng , you said you felt like you broke a social contract — and honestly? You did. That's exactly what happened. And the reason it felt so heavy is because that contract is one of the most universally praised fictions we've inherited. Everyone around us cosigns "one love" as the gold standard without ever questioning whether love actually works that way. And I want you to know — you're not alone in that experience. We are all tied to this phenomenon. Every single one of us has felt the weight of that conditioning at some point. The guilt, the shame, the catching of breath you described — those feelings have moved through more of us than anyone openly admits. That's exactly why conversations like this one matter. What doesn't sit right with me is that love — real love — is such a sweet, kind, and beautiful experience. It's one of the most purely good things we get to feel as human beings. And yet we've layered so much guilt and shame on top of it that by the time we're done wrestling with all of that, the original feeling gets watered down. The very thing that was supposed to be the point gets diluted by the noise of everyone else's expectations. But here's what your experience revealed: love didn't shrink or become less real because it showed up again for someone new. The weight of it didn't change. The texture did. The expression did. And that distinction is everything. No two loves I've ever felt have been identical — but the depth of the feeling, the gravity of it, that's been consistent. That's what tells me love isn't a limited resource being divided. It's something else entirely. The guilt and shame you felt weren't proof that something was wrong with you. They were proof of how thoroughly that social contract had been written into you. Recognizing the naturalness of the feeling beneath all that conditioning — that's the real work. And it sounds like you did it.
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Dylan Sean
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Human Design coach. Buddhist practitioner. Fantasy writer. Aspiring filmmaker. Fortnite player. Building sacred systems for scattered souls. PWRS 🦁⚡️

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