We are staying in a hotel this weekend and on the way back to the room after breakfast someone said I looked nice and asked if I were on the way to church. I had thrown on dark jeans and a blue Brooks Brothers button down shirt to get breakfast. Quality and fit for the win this morning.

I came from work today to find a large package waiting for me. When I saw it was from Real Men Real Style I was shocked! What in the world is this? My wife had a very puzzled look on her face and my daughter asked “what did you buy?” When I opened it up I was shocked to find this full bottle of cologne! What a gorgeous box, equally beautiful bottle and a scent that matches both of them. Also, a challenge coin which is phenomenal and means so much to me. But why? I racked my brain for 15 minutes until I remembered reading about special gifts for members who signed up for his premium plans. Aha!! Now I didn’t sign up for gifts, obviously it didn’t even play into my decision. I signed up for the premium plans in these communities because I get so much more out of them than the small cost involved. I likewise get so much out of you guys here. @Antonio Centeno thank you so much for this very special gift and thank you for this community you have created that has helped me reshape myself inside and out since January 2025.

Belts, watches, rings, bracelets, necklaces and so forth are considered accessories. Regarding Men who are Over 40, generally, the rule of thumb is no more than two (E.g., a belt and a watch). Although your environment (work, social, date, outdoors) will generally dictate the amount of accessories. I'm inclined to think the more formal, the fewer accessories as previously stated. Once you start moving into the more casual settings, 3-4 are totally acceptable. Unless of course, you are a pirate with SWAG. Your thoughts?

You cannot make meaningful progress in life if you carry around the heavy burdens from your past. That includes all the grudges, bitterness, and anger toward the people who wronged you. You may think holding onto that resentment somehow gives you power… …but in reality, it’s the exact opposite. It drains your energy. It clouds your judgment. ...and it robs you of the focus required to actually win. Forgiveness isn't about letting anyone off the hook. It's about freeing yourself to keep moving forward. You can’t build a great life while in a constant state of bitterness and suffering. It's literally impossible. Offer forgiveness. Let it go. Move on. Use your energy to build what comes next. Not on what you wish could have been different. Your peace and prosperity depend on it. ~ Andy Frisella

Gentlemen, gentlemen, gentlemen... Last Monday, my family has grown by one more. An adorable baby girl (the first out my now 4 kids, and the first granddaughter to my wife and I's parents). Let me say guys that while I haven't seen every corner of the globe, or some everything there is to do in life, I have seen some absolutely beautiful things... She's at the top of the list. To all the fathers of daughters: while my sons have helped me discover and fortify my pride, strength, and resiliency, I certainly get it now... There's a part of my heart and soul I didn't previously know existed, thanks to her ❤️.