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Too much?
Does this work, or too similar/bad combo? Tie doesn't pop in the photo as much as in real life (100% silk), and the textures are different.
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Too much?
Daily Wins, the Rules of 3, and Journaling
Journaling. Last month when I crossed over into my 60's I decided I was going to journal daily. It takes about 30 days for something to become a daily habit and my journaling has. I dedicate one page to each day and I purposefully write out in long hand my random thoughts about the day. Rules of 3. I once worked for a general officer who only wanted to be briefed in his rules of three. "Tell me three things that you feel I should know and be involved in directly. " He told us. Ever since then, on any briefing or paper I concentrate on only three things I feel is important at the time. In this case in my journal I look for 3 Wins Daily. The First Win is at work. What did I accomplish or what went right. How did I make things better for my team. The Second Win is what did I do for my wife to make her day easy or show my appreciation. Win Three is what did I do for myself. Three wins a day. My day consists of three active parts. Morning, Afternoon, Evening. Night is for my body to regenerate while I sleep. I set out to do at least three things at work. Like I mentioned I limit my comments to one page. Sometimes there is not much but at least I reflected on the day and identified my wins. Good penmanship is important to me so every page is legible. I use a good pen, one that is comfortable in my hand. I don't dwell on what I wrote the day before - I may look at it but I don't relive what I have written. It is past and tomorrow I am working to be conscious of my three daily wins.
7 likes • Oct '24
Very good! I’m betting journaling helps you sleep more soundly having “let go of the day”. Thanks for sharing!
Best color for Chelsea boots?
Consider equivalent color combinations. I own two pair of dark brown shoes already.
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4 likes • Oct '24
Genuinely believe black, in this instance, is extremely versatile.
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Wearing a safari jacket High waisted corduroy Navy polo Blue suede shoes
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7 likes • Oct '24
The shoes work well with the jacket. Mind sharing jacket origin?
Graphic Tee Conundrum
My wife and I have, over the years, amassed quite a collection of concert tee shirts from the various bands we have seen live. They are a part of our collective memories together. I know that graphic tees are typically frowned upon in men’s style and fashion circles. My typical daily wear is a button down shirt and chinos. I’d appreciate any ideas on how to wear my rock concert graphic tees and still appear reasonably well dressed!
4 likes • Oct '24
I think you have a few options: - Wear them for yourself/don’t care what others think. - Wear them around the house (gym?) only. - Make sure every other component in the outfit is in great shape (fit, color, texture, etc.) - Wear it underneath a shirt jacket, cardigan, or sweater. Happiness counts for a lot. If wearing them makes you happy, wear them with pride.
2 likes • Oct '24
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