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33 contributions to Men of Action: Forum
The Right Compliments
As we all know, simps like to point out the obvious when talking to hot chicks - that they’re hot. Even as a guy, even I get irritated and cringe from guys who point out the fucking obvious. It’s redundant! Anyone with half a brain hates redundancies anyone who has to fill the role of Captain Obvious! Women in particular know you’re only talking to her for more than a minute because she’s attractive! The only kinda compliments she wants to hear are something that genuinely comes from the soul and about her character, not about her looks. When you do that, you’re - in a way - dehumanizing her, reducing her to just an image. It’s not a negative judgment, but it’s still a judgment nonetheless. When you boil it all down, judgment is boxing someone into a category, positive or negative. And all it does is overly simplify (god knows I hate it), makes people look one-dimensional and uninteresting… like a simp or nice guy is… Really boils down our internal realities affecting our external realities. If you’re one dimensional, you’re gonna do and say one dimensional shit (shit that’s not at all interesting or gonna have any measurable impact)… Goddamn it’s 3:23 AM PST, and I’m still up and hustling… but it’s what I gotta do, and I get super reflective at night like the nocturnal animal I am…
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New comment 4d ago
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When a Man gives a woman he barely knows a compliment, he more or less says, that he is sexually interested in her. Women understand this instinctively. That's why, if you are a very hot and/or high status Man, giving out compliments might work, because they want you to be directly interested in her. But for most men, you fall in the category of "behold my beauty, but please suffer in silence". As long as you fall into this category, I feel like giving women obvious compliments is neutral at best and detrimental at worst. Only give compliments, when she craves to hear praise from you. Until then I feel your time as a Man is better spend to talk to her in a way, that gives you the opportunity to find out if she actually deserves praise or not.
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New comment 3d ago
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I'm glad you are taking action to protect and continue to make this community a better and more authentic place!
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@Landin Petz Just wanted to point out, that I find your request very polite and respectfully written! Bravo!
Women always assume your hitting on them
I decided to ask my question in an audio recording for the full context. I’m gonna start making recordings of myself to better ask these questions with full context and clarity for my questions instead of just trying to type a bunch of text for these questions. I have questions about female friends and me practicing making female friends.
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New comment 7d ago
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In my experience, if you do not have social proof yet, the second best thing is to give them time to listen to you talking to other people. Meaning approach them, when they are not alone but in a mixed group. Then talk with the other people about areas you are interested in and actual have something to say. Do this a couple of times, so that she got time to get accustomed to you, to your voice, to your energy. When you then talk to her, she won't feel like you are hitting on her.
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@Don Juan I very rarely go out alone. When I go out - even to just hang out - I'm there for a purpose. Either I'm meeting someone or I'm having fun with friends or I'm there for specific event. I would recommend to go to an event instead of going to a bar, looking for cold pickups. Pick a munch or another social event and have "reason" to be there. That way you will feel less awkward and it's not a waste of time, if you don't meet anyone you like. And avoid places that doesn't play to your strength, even if that's where people usually go. E.g. I have the fortune to have deep voice. But it's taxing for me to scream; so very loud places like a disco is not the place for me to be, because I my dance moves are mediocre and it's exhausting for me to scream in other people's ears. Also strategic placement is worth to put some thought into it. E.g. if you are at an event with a buffet, place yourself at the end of the buffet, because that's the place where people will be standing and asking themselves where they should go/sit next. So it's very easy to start an conversation, because everyone will be looking to connect with someone.
Which foreign Language?
Being able to communicate has proven to be a great asset in my life. And although many people do speak english, it's far easier to connect with them, if you speak their native language, even badly. So part of my 2 year plan is to add one additional language to my skill stack. From your experience, which of these three languages is most useful? I speak, German, English and Chinese.
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New comment 8d ago
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@Felipe Soares For one I work internationally, so I have a lot of exposure to people around the world. Generally I feel being able to engage people in their native language has been a huge leverage to build trust and get to know people, that wouldn't usually bother talking to you.
Off Market Dating System Workshop Experience
“If you are not successful and want to learn how to be successful, it will always feel awkward and try hard.” – Michael Sartain I was promised 6 hours live Face-to-Face on Zoom over 3 days on how improve my social media presence for the purpose of improving my personal life. Instead, I was given 3 days of over 12 hours live Face-to-Face on Zoom on ways to improve myself as a man in the areas of not only dating, but also business, networking, and leadership. Thank you, Michael, along with the Men of Action (MOA) mentors, coaches, and alumni (Char, Casey, Ty, Tristan, John, Grant, Anthony, Luke, and Miguel) for providing concise step by step instruction and personalized feedback based on each of your individual expertise to help those of us that were eager to push our limits in times of being uncomfortable. Special shoutout to the Rational Male, Rollo Tomassi and Motivational/Debaucherous Speaker, Owen Cook for making a surprise cameo visit at the end of the workshop. Should this workshop be available again to future curious participants, I recommend this course without reservation to those who want to better themselves in any area of life if you are willing to be held accountable and take action moving forward in order to accomplish your dream goals and visions both personally and professionally. Samad Fakhar Baltimore, Maryland Off Market Dating System Workshop Participant: November 19-21, 2024
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New comment 10d ago
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Thanks for sharing!
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Constantin Zhang
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@constantin-zhang-1131
At the very beginning of my IG journey. Eager to learn and to grow. I value people, who are authentic, intelligent, attractive and uncomplicated.

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Joined Nov 3, 2024
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