Hey fellas, I’m 18 and starting to take life seriously—working full-time, training consistently, investing in myself, and building habits that’ll shape who I become. I know I don’t have it all figured out, so I’d love to hear from some of you who’ve got a bit more life under your belt. What’s something you wish you knew at 18? Whether it’s about finances, relationships, fitness, mindset, discipline—whatever. I’m here to listen and learn.

in your opinions which do you think makes me look more professional and business like to have a hairstyle where the beard and hair meet picture on the left or where there is separation in the hair and beard in the picture on the right? thank you everyone for the warm welcome, hope I can be a valued addition to this community and all the fellow brothers 🔥

Who else likes their boots? I made the decision a few years ago to get rid of my dress shoes and just go with western boots as part of a “signature style.” As I mentioned elsewhere, I have a couple of made to order suits that I had fitted to accommodate cowboy boots. The Chelsea boots are the newest addition, so I have boots I can wear with slimmer fitting slacks/jeans/trousers. And a confession: The first few RMRS videos I watched were related to styling cowboy boots.

Alright, let’s get your mind out of the gutter—I’m talking socks, not scandal. Mid-Calf vs. Over-The-Calf: who knew sock length could spark such a wardrobe crisis? Honestly, I’m just thrilled when mine match and haven’t been sacrificed to the washer-dryer goblin. For most of my 59 years, socks were an afterthought. I mean, I could admire a quality pair, but shelling out serious cash for foot fabric? Hard pass. That is, until suits became my daily uniform. Now? I’m firmly planted in the Over-The-Calf camp—and I’m not budging. Here’s why these knee-huggers win every time: 1. They Stay Put: These socks grip just below the knee like they’ve got commitment issues in reverse. No sagging, no bunching—just sock stability all day long. 2. They Look Sharp: When you sit or cross your legs, you won’t flash any awkward calf skin. It’s all class, all the time. 3. They Bring the Heat: Perfect for chilly days or when you want full leg coverage—especially with boots or dress pants. Bonus: no need to double up with “boot socks.” 4. Compression, Baby: Many come in compression styles, which boost circulation and keep your legs from feeling like overcooked spaghetti by 5 p.m. 5. Boot-Friendly: No more buying separate socks for boots. These do the job and protect your calves from that annoying boot rub. I snag mine from Southern Scholar—not sponsored, just a fan of their good-looking, high-quality socks. If you’ve got another brand that rocks your ankles, drop it in the group chat. Sock solidarity, people. I'd like to get your thoughts.

My age is telling me I'm an adult man but I still don't really feel like it. Kind of just feel like a kid pretending to be an adult. Anyone else feeling that way? I know everyone says things like fake it till you make it, but will I ever really feel like an adult or is it just my joints that will feel it? 😅