There used to be a French guy on youtube... I think his name was Hugo? I can't find his material now for the life of me. But, I remember him saying Sprezzatura is taking one item away, rather than having every little accessory. I like ties, I love pocket squares, but today the way the outfit came together, I thought the shirt color was enough. You can't see it in the pic, but I'm also sporting gold, which I think stands out more than silver or gunmetal. I like the lavender shirt, but it's not easy to pair with other items. Joeseph Abboud twill shirt, VBC flannel suit jacket by Oliver Wicks, BR dress pants, and BR derbys.