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4d •
Body Doubling/Priority Party Discussion Thread
Let's chat here about days and times that work well for folks! I'm always looking for body doubling as someone who works from home! 💖 Please include time zones as well since I know we're all over the place. 🥰
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Ooh, I'd be curious about this. I am on a pretty flexible schedule, and I have some projects I would like to put some focused energy into :)
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Time zone, CET, Copenhagen
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Parenting in this time period
I have one child who is only motivated by money. And she sees no boundary between her desires and other people’s property/time/Nike shoes. So I parent via texting bc I can stay much more regulated. Her and her sister chose the rates. Parents, what are some ways you’ve had to parent in this time period? 🙃
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@Judy Hu I am well, thanks! ❤️ Hope you are too
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@Judy Hu he is :)
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2/17: Cosmic to do list
2/17 is Lunar New Year, new moon, AND solar eclipse. This reel show how to use it. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUtgfGcEgnm/?igsh=MTQwZ2p4Z2h0MGplbA==
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Sharing a Glimmer
Wanting to share a win today with the CB community. I'm sobbing right now (in a good way) over something that is really small but is landing in a really big way. I was feeling a little down today, my tween activated at the moment. Then my husband sent me a a local event he saw posted for Lunar New Year this weekend that he thought we should attend. And the tears hit because 1- my sweet husband is thinking of me and trying to celebrate with me, and 2- for the first time my first thought wasn't "is it ok if I'm there?" I can't find the words right now to describe how huge that 2nd thing is for me. It's evidence that the work I've been doing to connect with my ancestors and identity is truly integrating. I just can't stop crying. 😂😭 So so so grateful for this work and this community and everything it's growing within me. 🥹
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@Mai Le you look magical!
26d •
“Proof culture is demonic”
Monday Musing: I’m sitting with this reel as a thought exercise. (If religion is a turn off, change the players in this story. ) I appreciate that if you need to prove your identity, then you’re not confident of it. Cycle breaking is about embodying who you really are and loving every messy part, with compassionate accountability. Proof feels like the adaptive t/ween trying to find belonging and approval. Do you ever make your Self prove your worthiness? How does it feel in your body? https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUbCacDEasd/?igsh=MXF1Y3BmbWRzNndoMg==
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Love it
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Currently a way it shows up in my life us with misunderstanding with a partner. In conflict he wants me to explain so he can understand why I did the thing that was hurtful to him. In that situation I feel put on the spot and like I need to prove to him that I did not have bad intentions or explain how I feel to make him feel at ease. And meanwhile I want to feel cared for also when I can't explain how I feel. I feel good communication and repair around/after the situations though
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