Why The Law of Attraction Does Work For Some People
Devaluing people's desires This is the opposite of saying – ‘I know what you want to achieve and I find it viable.’ If you find yourself devaluing something that you sincerely want to achieve, you shoot yourself in the foot. Your subconscious mind does not understand contradictions. That’s why when it comes to general principles, it will never be ‘I don’t want it for them, but I only want it for myself’. If you’d like to become an actor, for instance, but you hate famous actors, branding them sell-outs or worse, you will never attain their level of success. To identify the limitation, ask yourself: how and why do I hate the game? Hating the game always makes you lose before you even start. Not an equal choice This is about putting people and things on a pedestal, which creates undue resistance. If an option of having or doing something is not an equal choice compared to other options available to you, you need to ask yourself why that is. Coveting too much is often a sign of a conflict in our psyche, which can be objectively characterized as a lifestyle mismatch. Therefore, it is highly likely that there is a part of you that would feel ashamed if the things you constantly talk about but never act upon became your day-to-day reality. To identify the limitation, you need to address this issue and consciously design your life so that the objects of your desires become integral to it. Accepting other people’s meaning and disregarding your own Your meaning creates your reaction, and your reaction creates your reality. If you allow other people’s meanings to rule over you, you will not be able to tell your own story and play the central character in it. The solution is to appreciate your own point of view and reject the labels as an attempt to assert dominance by others. Disregarding the beauty of certain activities My personal pet peeve has always been people who have no love for cinema attempting to write screenplays. What they don’t realize is that the appreciation for beauty is a crucial step, without which success is not possible. The objective of decent filmmakers is to make their movies look cool. And you can’t make it look cool if you don’t possess a certain sensibility that could inspire you.