Introduction. Seasons change, circumstances change, things will never remain the same. As it is properly recorded in the good book, there is no new thing under the sun. Given the opportunity to introduce myself to this wonderful society, allow me to tell you about myself. I am not a poet but don't be shocked if I write a poem. It's hard for me to write in summary my 31 years of lifetime experience but I don't want to waste the precious time of the reader so I will tell you some bits and pieces. The ones I cannot tell you are secrets and undiscovered talents which sometimes surprises me. Don't be mistaken,I'm not reckless.I like experimenting new things and in that euphoria, I'm gone. I'm sometimes quiet and observant but not chary in my comfort zone or when pushed to the wall. My Faith. I believe that the only way to salvation is putting all your faith in Jesus Christ alone. I believe in once, saved always saved. I believe the Bible is the true Word of God and anyone can understand the Bible and make a choice. This is where my actions and decisions evolve around and don't feel attacked if I seem hard on you for pulling some strings on any of these principles. Don't worry, I'm a sinner like everyone else only saved by grace. My Aspirations. I always like to think forward so I easily get upset when things “go south”. I like things to continue the same way but I'm learning that is not the order of life. I want to be a good father, if not great, to my children. I also want to meet new people and help them as much as I can. The end. If you've made it this far into this boring summary of my life, if it qualifies as such, thank you. I would like to know yours too.

Good morning, everyone. My name is Jeremy Lunsford. I’m a 36-year-old chef from Tennessee. Outside of the kitchen, I spend much of my time focused on the strategy and discipline found in chess, billiards, and blackjack. I’ve recently found my faith, and I am currently focused on self-discovery and a more intentional way of living. I look forward to the quiet, thoughtful exchange this community offers.

We only had 1 new member in February. Please welcome @Allen Musch Please raise a glass to our newest member to our society!!

Good morning ladies and gentlemen, One thing that I am learning on this journey, is how important communication and words are. Our words can validate our status. How we respond to certain questions or statements cannot only help you build confidence in yourself but also how others perceive you. For example, when someone says thank you don’t reply with you’re welcome; without realizing it, your minimizing your own value. Words seem small but they shape how the world perceives you today. Here are a few responses that instantly elevate your presence: 1.When someone says thank you don’t say “you’re welcome”, say “it was my pleasure” or “you can always count on me,” value your time value your energy. 2.If you arrive late don’t say sorry I’m late, “say thank you for waiting”, or say “I appreciate your patience”. Turn guilt into gratitude. 3.When someone asks what you want to eat. don’t say “whatever”, say “you choose I trust your taste” calm confidence is leadership. 4.If someone asks whether you know how to do something don’t say “I don’t know”, say “I can learn it quickly” capability outweigh doubt. 5. If you don’t know the answer don’t say “I have no idea”, say “that that’s interesting. What do you think?” Well placed humility earns respect. 6.If someone compliments you, don’t deflect it say “thank you”. That means a lot, receiving with confidence is strength. 7. If a guest says there’s too much food, don’t apologies. Say “you deserve to enjoy it.” Generosity doesn’t need justification. Never speak carelessly every word either builds your presence or weaken it. Here is the thing; the most important part speaking well isn’t manipulation, It’s awareness. Master your words, and you master how the world responds to you.

Early meetings the, lunch with an old friend and back to the office for more paperwork. Glad my new glasses arrived today.