Good evening everyone. I just wanted to take some time out of my day to contribute something to this community and figured I’d share something that helped me with my overall personal experience. Your real help starts here, with this community and with your coaching. You can’t skimp out on the resources here. I do want to add something for you all to be able to listen to. This has more to do with self. It’s an interesting interview that brings up the hardships men (and young boys) face in general. We often ignore the challenges we face. Outside of infidelity, this interview expresses what we as men often deny ourselves of. Give it a listen and see if you can relate. Let this bring you some peace that you aren’t alone. https://youtu.be/0LM4-TqhiaA?si=YRfRniwk76CTSZ_D

Hear. Heal. Help. Brother, if you’re here, it means life as you knew it has been turned upside down.The pain, confusion, anger, and devastation can feel unbearable.You’re not alone — and you’re not broken beyond repair. Healing after betrayal isn’t a single step. It’s a process.Inside this community, we follow a simple yet powerful path: Hear. Heal. Help. 🧠 1. HEAR – Understanding What You Feel and Why You Feel It Before you can rebuild, you have to understand what’s happening inside you.Most men feel completely lost after betrayal — angry, confused, numb, or destroyed.You’re not crazy. You’re experiencing trauma. In this stage, you’ll begin to hear what’s happening in your mind, body, and emotions.You’ll learn: - What you feel — grief, anger, confusion, shame, emptiness - Why you feel it — what trauma does to your brain and nervous system - How to start calming the chaos inside your body and mind This is where you start breathing again. It’s where understanding begins. Goal: Move from emotional chaos to awareness and grounding. 💪 2. HEAL – Rebuilding Yourself, Step by Step Healing doesn’t happen by accident. It happens through intention and structure.This stage is all about rebuilding you — the man behind the pain. You’ll follow a step-by-step roadmap designed to help you heal as an individual.This is where the Forge Bootcamp and Self-Paced Healing Course guide you through proven tools to stabilize, strengthen, and rebuild. If reconciliation is part of your story, this stage can also include the Roadmap to Reconciliation, where you’ll learn how to rebuild trust and connection together. In this stage, you’ll: - Learn to regulate emotions and manage triggers - Rebuild self-worth and masculine identity - Process trauma in healthy ways - Set boundaries and rediscover purpose Goal: Move from surviving to rebuilding — becoming grounded, confident, and whole again. ⚒️ 3. HELP – Turning Pain into Purpose

Hey Paul! Great platform to get us men together here to work on ourselves and find community. Looking forward to what happens here.