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Morning, Afternoon, or Evening?
I’m curious how many people here function best at different times of day. Sometimes I will get a burst of clarity and energy at random times of day but I know from experience, I better get important things done first thing in the morning like exercise and phone calls (which I hate doing). How about you?
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I've finally realized I have an ideal productivity window midday. I now plan my most important decisions and tasks for 11am-3pm. I have started blocking and protecting that time from distractions (as much as possible while corralling a 5-year-old). I am able to get so much more done each day just from recognizing and leveraging that small window where my highest energy, willpower, focus, and motivation seem to most naturally coalesce.
Week 6  -  Final Reflection & Letter to Future Self
Ok, others have been brave enough to share their final reflection so here's mine... Completed on 2/26/2026 Your Responses Six weeks ago, what was your biggest struggle? Be specific - not 'everything' but the one thing that hurt most. six weeks ago the thing that hurt most was that it seemed like no matter what i did what i learned how hard i tried what i tried i just kept repeating the same pattern, the same cycle, I was stuck in a loop. i would get optimistic because i was seeing something new, i was learning something, i thought i was doing better but it never lasted long and i couldn't stick with it, i couldn't keep going, it would all fall apart somehow, some way and i would go back to where i started, it was frustrating and disheartening. the procrastination, lack of motivation, lack of energy just seemed to keep knocking me back down and i just couldn't figure out how to get over that hump and make a change that would stick What story were you telling yourself about why you couldn't change? The story I was telling myself about why I couldn't change is that I'm just not good enough. I just don't have enough energy. I just don't have the right kind of focus or I'm just not committed enough. I'm just not capable. I would look for excuses, explanations, reasons in the outside world. I'm not sleeping enough. I'm sick. I'm not fit enough. I'm not strong enough. I'm not doing this right. I'm not doing that right. If I could just get myself to do this and that, then I'd be okay. Then I'd have the energy. Then I could do this. And it would be ok, round and round in circles, I was just stuck in that loop of, I needed to fix A so that I could do B. I needed to fix B so I could do C. I needed to fix C so I could do A. And I just couldn't get out of that fucking loop. And i repeated this over and over and over again so obviously it must just be me that is defective, incapable, weak. Other people can do it but I just can't no matter what I do What's the single biggest insight you gained? The one thing that changed how you see yourself or your ADHD.
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Oh, Pam, thank you for sharing this with us!! And thank you for sharing in yesterday's call! I'm so glad we're in this journey together😀. It's been a truly transformational 6 weeks and like @Deanna Dalton said, we're just starting out on an incredible year ahead. Here's to letting go of the old limiting beliefs and unabashedly embracing who we truly are. You said it perfectly: "There's nothing wrong with me at all. There never was. I've just been trying to be somebody else and that doesn't work."
Final Reflection and Letter to Future Shanon
So thankful for this program and this community! @Jim Ebbelaar Thank you again! The community is wonderful and the Harmony AI platform is amazing and incredibly helpful!! Final Reflection — Shanon Part 1: Your Arc The Distance You've Traveled Six weeks ago, you walked into a 5-day challenge hoping for maybe one organizational tip. One. You described the pain not as a single problem but as something far heavier — a cycle. Years of trying to fix yourself, burning out, giving up, and feeling hopeless about ever breaking free. You wrote in your Commitment Letter that the thing that kept coming up over and over was trusting yourself and choosing yourself. You said 2025 was the year you figured yourself out, and 2026 would be the year you put learning into practice and built a better life. Shanon, look at what you actually did. You didn't just "put learning into practice." You rewired the story underneath it. In Week 1, you named your Big Rock: building routines and systems for sleep, nutrition, exercise, and household management — because you knew that if you could get those foundations right, everything else (your fertility journey, your business, your energy for your son) would follow. In Week 2, you described a woman who was sleeping through two alarms, forgetting to eat until headaches hit, and crashing hard by mid-afternoon. You said you wanted to wake earlier, feel refreshed, and have more than a narrow window of clarity each day. Now look at your check-ins from this past week: Focus 9. Calmness 9. Happiness 9. Motivation 9. Sleep Quality 9. Across the board. Not one day — multiple days running. You're eating within 90 minutes of waking, protein first. You swapped your phone for a physical book before bed. Two changes. That's it. And those two changes rebuilt your days from the ground up. You told me that yourself — "more productive, and more enjoyable." That's not someone who can't stick to a system. That's someone who finally found systems that fit her brain.
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@Pam Raney Thanks! I am so happy to have found such a wonderful supportive new "tribe" to belong to, learn from, and hopefully help too. Thanks for being my body doubling buddy! I'm glad we're taking this journey together too 🙂
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@Deanna Dalton Thank you! Same goes for you! I can't wait to see what the rest of 2026 brings as we keep doing the work. 🙂
My win of the week
Managed to get myself over to a 9:00am in-person interview this morning! Feeling proud of myself that I was present and engaged for the interview position itself, but also that I feel as good about it as I do!
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🔥Today! What's your biggest struggle right now?
Two months ago: 500 members. Today: over 2,200 🤯 Soon, we're going live with the next round of the ADHD Harmony 5-Day Challenge. Last time, people showed up thinking "this probably won't work for me." Then Day 3 hit and members started crying from the AI reflections. They closed loops they'd been avoiding for months. They posted wins they never thought they'd have. Their moms started sending testimonials. 😂 (yes, really) Improved content. New energy. And a community 5x bigger. This will be your moment! 👇 Vote below: what's your biggest ADHD struggle right now? 💬 Or let me know in the comments below!
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🔥Today! What's your biggest struggle right now?
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@Tracy Weiss Same! I was just lamenting this very issue yesterday.
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@Tracy Weiss Another community member, @Sara Edvardsson, had recommended FINCH, but I was feeling overwhelmed at the time and decided to plan a time to try it out. And now is that time. I just got the reminder on my phone that I had set to try out the FINCH app after I completed Jim's 6-Week program.
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I LOVE books, music, and dance! If I could, I would read for hours each day, while listening to music, with occasional dance breaks. Alas, life...

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