Have you ever tried to talk yourself into believing something positive, but it just didn’t land? Like saying, “I’m confident,” while your body’s quietly saying, “No, you’re not.” Yeah, I’ve been there. When I first started learning about language reframing, I thought it was about forcing yourself to think differently or pretending everything was fine. But reframing isn’t about pretending. It’s about leading yourself. It’s the bridge between where you are and where you want to be, using language your unconscious mind can actually believe. So instead of saying, “I’m confident,” when I wasn’t, I started saying things like, “I’m learning to trust my voice more each time I speak.” That felt real. And because it felt real, my body relaxed into it. When you shift the language, you shift the meaning. And when you shift the meaning, your nervous system follows. That’s the magic of reframing. It’s not fluffy mindset talk. It’s a way of communicating safety and possibility to yourself. ✨ Try this today: Catch one thought that feels heavy or harsh. Instead of arguing with it, ask, “How can I reword this in a way that supports me?” You might be surprised how much lighter it feels when your language starts leading you forward instead of holding you back.

Have you ever caught yourself wondering if you’re being too much of something?Like… too positive, too emotional, too quiet, or even too loud? That is a pattern I have to be careful with. People would say things like, “You’re so positive, Karla,” and sometimes I could feel the little undertone of annoyance in it. Then on days when I wasn’t as positive, I’d get told, “You’re being negative.”And my brain would spiral “Okay… so which one am I supposed to be today?” It’s funny, right? How fast we can turn our natural way of being into something we think needs to be "fixed." When I started learning NLP, I realized something simple but super powerful! AWARENESS IS KEY. Because the moment I catch myself thinking, “Am I being too this or too that?” That’s my cue. That’s the moment I can start reframing myself. Now I ask myself, “What if this quality just needs a different context?” What if the thing I’m judging is actually a strength — just showing up in the wrong setting? That shift in language changes everything. It's helped me through so many parts of life… even through child labor (but that’s a story for another post). When you learn to reframe your language, you stop battling who YOU are. You start understanding yourself instead And that awareness opens the door for confidence, calm, and real connection. 🪞Try this out... What’s one thing you’ve labeled as too much or not enough about yourself? How could you reframe that today into something that serves you instead?