be honest with yourself for a second…
if your avoidant spouse / ex reached out today
said the words you’ve been waiting to hear
apologized
wanted to talk
would it actually fix everything?
or would it just reopen the same loop
the same hope
the same anxiety
the same “maybe this time” feeling
what would really need to be different for it to feel safe, not just familiar?
drop your thoughts below - no judging, no fixing, just honesty 🖤