Facing My Mortality Changed My Understanding of Trust
What surviving an aortic dissection taught me about leadership under pressure. The idea for The Trust Transformation did not begin in a hospital room. But a hospital room is where its meaning became unmistakably clear to me. It began more than a decade earlier. In 2007, I started working on a concept I called Outrageous Trust. At the time, I had spent years observing leadership teams and organizations wrestling with the same invisible problem. - Decisions were made in meetings, but later they unraveled. - Alignment appeared strong on the surface, but beneath it, people hesitated to challenge one another honestly. - Accountability was often unclear, and leaders frequently carried the weight of important decisions alone. What I began to realize was that while most organizations valued trust, they thought that highlighting it in mission statements or culture presentations was enough. But trust is actually something much more powerful. It is an operating system. Just as the operating system in a computer determines how everything functions beneath the surface, trust determines how decisions hold up, how relationships function, and how organizations perform under pressure. Over the years, that idea continued to develop. Then in 2017, something important happened. Working alongside leaders at AdventHealth and collaborating with Dr. Omayra Mansfield, we launched what would become The Trust Transformation as an evidence-based employee training program. Through an Institutional Review Board study, we examined how people experienced trust before and after the training. What we discovered was encouraging. Participants began to shift their thinking about trust. Instead of seeing it as abstract or aspirational, they began to recognize it as practical and observable. Something that could be intentionally designed into leadership and culture. The data showed measurable positive changes. People began to see trust less as a vague cultural value and more as a system that shaped how leaders made decisions, communicated with one another, and worked through conflict.