17d • General discussion
Help and advise
Morning all anyone out there who has fallen out with a Son or Daughter?
I fell out with my Daughter about 3 years ago after and over something fucking stupid my Dads anniversary of his passing.
Let me explain at the time I was drinking heavy and had a skinfull to dumb out the anniversary of my dad and I was pissed off that my Daughter hadn’t messaged me and explained this to my wife and I was really stroppy and pissed off and yeah we were rowing over it then my wife went out of the room and oh by surprise my phone rang I declined the call and it rang again and again I declined it and again this time I shouted up to my wife to message my Daughter to stop ringing me but it rang again and this time I was so annoyed I answered it and said I didn’t want to talk to her ever again and that she was dead to me and I hung up and we’ve not spoken as such since no birthday no Christmas cards or presents my wife is still in contact and gets cards etc
My mother in law passed away in Feb and I was gearing myself up that she will attend of course she will. I attempted to say hello and sorry for her loss of her grandma and I was civil.
The issue I have is that the wife’s dad is now really frail and I’m dreading the time he passes and at his funeral that could be the last time I see her.
The purpose of this really long post (apologies) is to see if anyone has had the same issue and how did you resolve this? as I’m really thinking life is too short I know things will probably never be the same but don’t know how to approach this
Appreciate your time reading this.
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