In random news, I am really liking the empathy and sensitivity of the medical system I’m going to. They ask you if you want to be weighed and if you want to know (that was the last appointment) and then only show you the number instead of announce to you and partner. I don’t care at all but they just do things like that that give you some agency. In today’s scan they told me what they could before the doctor reviews it and didn’t make me wait long at all for the results. Then the tech just talked with me for a while about age gaps in kids and the pregnancy in general like I was a normal pregnant person and congratulated me several times even though I’m not newly pregnant. She could just tell that I had white knuckled the whole scan and just took time to make me feel normal after the results came in and share in some happiness. I’m happy with the outcome of the fertility clinic I’ve been going to for years (being pregnant now) but I have to say that it’s fairly cold and clinical and it’s nice to be treated like a person these days.