Emotional intelligence attracts people at first. They value your empathy, your insight, and your ability to stay grounded. The dynamic shifts when your emotional depth asks for honest conversations, accountability, and a willingness to face the emotions they avoid.
Your clarity exposes patterns of avoidance, denial, and self-centered behavior. This can feel uncomfortable for people who are not used to emotional responsibility.
Emotional intelligence strengthens relationships, but only when both people are ready for truth, depth, and accountability. Real connections require emotional courage not just emotional comfort.