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Can We Ride One Wave Today?
Most strong emotions feel like they will last forever. In reality, the intense part is usually a short wave in the body, then the mind keeps replaying it. Next time something hits hard, you can try this simple pattern: pause for a moment breathe in and out slowly stay with the sensation in your body for about 90 seconds Not to erase the emotion, just to let the first wave move through. If you took the next big feeling that shows up today and simply rode out those 90 seconds with it, what do you think you’d notice in your body afterwards?
Can We Ride One Wave Today?
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🎉 We have a winner! 🎉
Every week, I unlock the full 18-Day Emotional Intelligence Crash Course for the #1 spot on the 7-day leaderboard and today, we’re celebrating this week’s top member! Before I announce the winner, here’s a quick highlight from Lesson #25: This lesson breaks down the real impact of emotional validation in our relationships — how simply acknowledging someone’s feelings can shift connection, trust, and communication instantly. It’s one of the most transformative lessons in the course. Alongside the 28 lessons, each section includes a 5-question quiz to help you lock in the skills and track your growth. 🚀This full course unlocks at Level 4, AND I’m giving full access to the #1 member each week. ✨ This week’s winner: @Rachel Mobley — congratulations! You’ll receive full access to the complete EQ course starting Friday the 5th. How’s everyone’s progress in the other courses? Drop an update — I’d love to celebrate your wins too. 💛
🎉 We have a winner! 🎉
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Have You Checked the Classroom Yet?
Big shout out to @Luis Castro for creating this space! I’m really loving the community so far. If you haven’t checked out the Classroom yet, there’s a ton of helpful stuff in there. From the EQ test to the Daily Actions and Voice Toolkit, it’s packed with tools that actually help in real life. Definitely worth exploring.
Have You Checked the Classroom Yet?
What it Means to Deal With Toxic People
Emotional intelligence changes how you deal with difficult people — and whether they get access to your peace. Here’s the difference between reacting to toxic behavior and actually handling it with EQ: ☑️ Reactive response → Proactive response Pause, assess, and choose your reaction instead of acting on impulse. ☑️ Focus on blame → Focus on boundaries Protect your well-being by defining what’s acceptable and what’s not. ☑️ Emotional flooding → Emotional regulation Create space between trigger and response to think clearly. ☑️ External control → Internal control Your emotions belong to you — not to someone else’s behavior. ☑️ Short-term fixes → Long-term strategy Prioritize psychological safety over winning the moment. High EQ isn’t about fixing toxic people. It’s about not becoming reactive because of them. Calm is power. Boundaries are clarity. Self-control is freedom.
What it Means to Deal With Toxic People
Separation is Key
Emotional intelligence begins with distance. Distance creates clarity. Clarity creates choice. Here are 6 EQ-based practices that help you regulate emotions instead of being led by them: ☑️ Awareness → Name the emotion without judging it ☑️ Pause → Create space between stimulus and response ☑️ Observation → Watch the feeling without merging with it ☑️ Breath → Use your body to steady your mind ☑️ Perspective → Ask what this emotion is trying to signal ☑️ Intention → Choose a response aligned with your values Emotional mastery isn’t suppression. It’s self-leadership. When you step back, emotions become data. Data brings insight. Insight restores control.
Separation is Key
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