Why ‘Calm Down’ Doesn’t Work—And What Actually Works
Most athletes have heard it: “Calm down, just relax, you’ll do better.” Here’s the truth: it doesn’t work. Because performance under pressure isn’t a mindset problem—it’s a stress response problem. Your nervous system controls: • Heart rate • Muscle tension • Coordination • Reaction speed • Emotional control • Recovery When stress spikes, your body executes exactly how it’s trained. Trying to “think” your way out of it is like trying to stop a freight train with your hands. That’s where IDUR comes in: Identify – Notice your stress state early: breath changes, tension, vision narrows. Deconstruct – Use performance breathing to downshift and reset physiology. Understand – Study your triggers and patterns. Chaos becomes predictable. Respond – Execute correctly while activated, not just “calm.” Pro Tip: Between reps, plays, or sets, use your breath as a reset lever. Every controlled breath is a nervous system rep. Ask yourself today: - Where does your nervous system break under pressure? - Which phase of IDUR do you need to practice more? Drop a comment with your answers. Let’s train the system that controls performance, not just the skill.