Want to share a realization I had recently about my little understanding of why everyone is perfect and why everyone’s life is perfect

I had a meeting with my mentor today. She is a very lovely lady with successful career. I reached out to her because I want to develop more of mg career and I need a professional like her to give me some advice.

At the end of our meeting, we chatted a little bit about our life and family. I said that I hope I can have my dream career just like you. Then she sighed and said to me: I wish I can have my own child. She told me she tried everything to have a baby, and yet she can’t.

Then I realized that something is so common to us maybe so precious to others that they don’t have. That’s why I realize that I already have my perfect life, because my daily life is someone’s perfect life that she’s being dreamed for so long.

It’s just like we are the same person who lives in different parallel worlds. We all experience different aspects of life in each world. We thought that our life is not good enough. But in fact we are the one. We are just different sides of a beautiful diamond. Just because we can’t see the other sides, we think that we are just a flat mirror. But in fact we are the diamond as a whole.

After realizing this, I started to feel more grateful for my life, for everything I have.

Another thing I realized is that how not to grasp, how being relaxing and trust ourselves, trust the process can help us get the things we want. For me when I am so eager to get a job, all I felt was anxiety, fear and lack. But when I trust myself that I am perfect, I am worthy. I started to see what I really want. Then it helped to make right decisions and avoid some potential troubles.

OK this is the end of my sharing, hope I made my point :)

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