Joining Play: Pick the script your child will actually use
Kids do best with one short phrase they can repeat, not a long explanation. Here are two solid options — both work, but different kids need different styles. Option A 🗣️ “Can I have a turn when you’re done?” ✔️ Best for: shy kids, kids who interrupt, kids who need structure Option B 🗣️ “That looks fun — how do you play?” ✔️ Best for: kids who want to connect but don’t know how If they get ignored: - “I’m going to watch for a sec—tell me when I can join.” - “What role can I be?” Question: Which one sounds more like your child right now — A or B? Drop the letter and their age, and tell me where they’re practicing (playground, school, or playdates).