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Hi everyone, I want to take a moment to share something that’s been on my heart as this community continues to grow. There are so many thoughtful, capable women here and while we gather around shared values, learning, and conversations, I don’t often get the chance to simply meet you. Not as a coach, not with an agenda, just as another human who values honesty, capacity, and real connection. So I’ve opened a few spaces on my calendar for something I’m calling Capacity & Coffee. This is not a coaching call, not a discovery call, and not a lead-in to anything. It’s simply a calm, agenda-free conversation. A chance to meet, talk, and share a little space without performance or expectation. There’s nothing to prepare and no outcome required. I’m not showing up as an expert here, and you don’t need to come with anything figured out. This is a reciprocal conversation, rooted in respect and presence. After we chat, I’ll send you a coffee on me as a small gesture of hospitality, the way I would if we were meeting in person. If this feels like something you’d enjoy right now, you’re welcome to book a time. If it doesn’t, that’s completely okay too. This space isn’t about filling calendars, it’s simply an open door. 🔗 Capacity & Coffee — Book a Conversation I’m really glad you’re here, and I look forward to meeting more of you whenever the timing feels right. Warmly, Jen
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👋 Welcome to the SELFish Community
We’re so glad you’re here. This is the space where everything you need to support your nervous system lives in one simple, steady hub. 🌱 What this community is: - A calm, clutter-free place to access free resources, tools, and programs that help you regulate and recharge. - A space for live classes, replays, and reminders so you can keep steady support at your fingertips. - A supportive community of women learning how to succeed without struggle and feel like themselves again. ❌ What this community isn’t: - Another noisy social feed or place you “have to keep up.” - A quick-fix or surface-level wellness app. - A space where you need to show up perfectly to belong. ✨ How to make the most of it: 1. Explore the resources available to you and save what feels supportive right now. 2. Join live classes when you can, or catch the replays without guilt. 3. Use the practices here as reminders, not another to-do list. 4. Share in the community when something lands, or when you need encouragement. 💬 Your Turn Take a moment to introduce yourself in the comments: - Where are you joining from? - What’s one sign you know your nervous system needs support right now? This is your space to come back to again and again, no pressure, no proving. Just support, steadiness, and remembering you’re not alone.
Your commute is literally the most underused somatic space of your day. (And I'm about to change that for you.)
it’s the little things! You spend 20-45 minutes in your car. Alone(mostly) Every single day. And most of us waste it on autopilot—podcasts, music, scrolling at red lights, stress spiraling about the day. But what if your commute became your intentional reset button? Here's how: MORNING COMMUTE = Set Your Intention Before you even pull out of the driveway, do this: 3 deep intakes and exhales. Halo breath. Nothing complicated. As you breathe in, ask: What energy do I want to cultivate today? What do I want to cash in on? Then drive. No music. No podcast. Just you and the road. Notice things. The trees. The sky. The other cars. Your own breath. Your nervous system is already regulating. Your mind is already setting the tone for everything that comes next. By the time you get to work? You're not arriving frantic. You're arriving intentional. EVENING COMMUTE = Release and Reset The workday is done. Your body is still holding everything—the stress, the emails, the tension, the decisions. So here's what you do: Sing. Loud. Obnoxious. Doesn't matter if you're good. Belt it out. Vocalize. Let anything trapped come out through your voice. Singing is one of the fastest ways to shift your nervous system from "work mode" to "home mode." Your body releases what it's been holding. The energy moves instead of stagnates. By the time you get home? You're present. Not still at the office. Your family or pet or friends or simply YOU gets the actual version of you. Not the residual stressed version. HERE'S THE THING: This isn't complicated. This isn't another practice you have to "find time for." It's using the time you're already spending. It's the mind-body connection. It's somatic work. It's intention. It's release. It's literally available to you every single day. So here's what I want: Try this for ONE week. Morning: Halo breath + notice drive. Evening: Sing your heart out. Then come back and tell me what shifted. How you showed up at work. How you showed up at home. How your body felt. What your team noticed. What your family noticed.
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Your commute is literally the most underused somatic space of your day. (And I'm about to change that for you.)
The Thing We Don’t Talk About in Group
You're here because you know nervous system regulation matters. But here's what I've noticed: the tools work differently for different nervous systems. What gets one person regulated in 60 seconds might take another person 90 seconds—or might need a completely different approach because her system has a different activation pattern. Group work is powerful. It builds community. It shows you you're not alone. But there's a threshold most women hit where the real transformation happens 1:1. It's where I get to see your actual system—not the version you show up as, but the one running underneath. It's where we can name what's actually happening in your body, in your decisions, in your relationships. One of my clients told me: "The group work made me believe it was possible. The 1:1 coaching made it real." If you're here in community but feel like something's still not clicking—like you understand the concept but can't quite access it when it matters most—that might be the signal. I'm opening a few 1:1 coaching spots, and I want to talk to you in our community first. This isn't about adding another program. It's about finally getting the support that actually meets your nervous system where it is. Let's grab coffee and explore if 1:1 is your next move. Reply here or DM me—I genuinely want to understand what you're navigating.
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The Reset🎥
If Monday is already Monday-ing… Let’s reset! Sometimes days are hard and you can’t shake the ick. Try this quick reset and shift the cycle from overwhelm to calm in minutes! Feeling is freedom my friends. Let me know if you try it and how it shifted things for you👇
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