Taking Care of Ourselves & Each Other Right Now
This is a heavy moment.There is a lot of fear in the air—violence, racism, and dehumanizing narratives are escalating. The public conversation around the Nicole Good case is also surfacing deep misogyny, blame, and distortion that can be especially activating and painful. If you’re feeling unsettled, angry, tired, vigilant, or pulled between wanting to speak and wanting to withdraw—nothing is wrong with you. These are nervous systems responding to real conditions. A few reminders for how we take care here: - Slow the body first. Before engaging, scrolling, posting, or debating—pause. Breathe. Feel your feet. Touch something solid. Regulation is not disengagement; it’s what allows clarity and choice. - You don’t have to consume everything. Limiting news and social media is an act of care, not avoidance. - Stay connected. Check in on each other. A text, a voice note, a walk together, a moment of witnessing matters more than perfectly articulated opinions. - Honor different capacities. Some people need to speak loudly. Others need quiet. Both are valid. - We protect our humanity together. That includes refusing misogyny, racism, and harm—without sacrificing our own nervous systems in the process. This space exists so we can practice being human in hard times—grounded, connected, and resourced enough to keep showing up for ourselves and for each other. You’re not alone.Take the care you need. Offer the care you can.