Can we agree on something before the week really gets going? You’re allowed to be curious. Not curious in a “blow up your life” way. Just curious in an honest, huh . . . that’s interesting kind of way. The kind where you notice what you like, what catches your attention, what your body leans toward, without immediately needing to explain or justify it. Exploring doesn’t mean acting. It doesn’t mean deciding anything. It just means letting yourself notice without rushing to shut it down or label it. 🍒 This week, try giving yourself permission to pause instead of dismiss. To think “I wonder why I like that” instead of “I shouldn’t.” To let curiosity be information, not a problem to solve. When was the last time you let yourself be curious without needing an answer?

Welcome to our new students @Stacy Goodrich @Brittany Scott @Monica Carpenter @Amber Joseph and @Alisa Bee

Maybe the lights feel dimmer. Maybe the calendar moved too fast. Maybe you’re tired in a way sleep doesn’t fix. Here’s your gentle reminder though. A smile is the start of pleasure. Not the big, performative kind. The small one that sneaks up when something soft, silly, or familiar hits just right. You don’t have to force cheer. You’re allowed to let pleasure start quietly. 🍒 So tell me. What holiday song makes you smile every single time, no matter your mood? Mine is in the comments

Y’all, I’m so glad you’re here. Whether you joined on day one or slipped in while I was out at sea, this is your space now. A cozy corner of the internet made for grown women who are smart, curious, tired of performing, and ready to reconnect with themselves on their own terms. Here’s the only rule to start: - You don’t have to show up perfect - You don’t have to know the “right” questions - You just have to be willing to exhale and let yourself be seen a little. Over the next few weeks, we’re easing in together. You’ll start seeing discussion posts, try-it moments, and ways to get to know each other before the semester begins (January 1) And listen… if you know a woman who needs this kind of space, invite her. Pleasure conversations get richer, deeper, and way more fun when more voices join in. The more of us here, the heartier this community becomes. Take a minute. Look around. Introduce yourself if you haven’t yet. I’m honored you’re here. Let’s learn, laugh, and grow together.

Where you land on it isn’t fixed. Some days your body needs rest and quiet. Other days it wants curiosity, play, or even a little kink. Most of us move along that spectrum more than we realize. Let’s check in with where you are today. Right now, my body is asking for…