Week of 2.22-2.28
Had moments of being in the mind out of the mind, in and out of the mind this week. Approached, asked women out,said no, and on we went. I thanked them, kept it friendly until we parted ways. Totally ok I felt. Normally before I would have felt negative feelings.
When I set goals I feel less attached, focus feels different than it did before.
I "notice" every day now. "Well wait why do i need to do this"?? I think. The internal resistance drops at that point. I take social interactions less seriously. "Oh thats just my mind talking, thats not actually me".
Starting to observe my thoughts when i first wake up in the morning. No wonder I felt so overwhelmed and emotionally frustrated. It was because im thinking about literally 7 different things that have no direct connection to eachother.
Hung out with a girl this week, shes pretty cool. Were going to hang out again.
I asked out a woman yesterday, after being in my head for an hr. I "noticed" then just started complimenting people wherever I walked, enjoyed the sunshine. As i continue walking, see this beautiful latina girl. If I associate a name to any of my approaches,as long as theyre coming from isntincts, its genuine, its naturally me, then im cool with it. Otherwise its garbage lmao.
A "walk and talk" approach naturally occured at that point. I went with it, she was cute, reserved, she said no to coffee. Kept it casual, friendly, thx see ya!
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Week of 2.22-2.28
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