4d • General discussion
Today
1.20
Saw a woman I felt wildly attracted too. Nervous system reacts “Wow dude you sure you wanna do that??. What if you get seen infront of everybody?. Was at the store. “What if everybody sees me??” The mind screams.
I Saw her multiple times, every time I imagined approaching, the ego (mind) said it felt weird and nerve racking, that I would be exposed. Shes going to think im creepy. No wait, Im creeping myself out, Ive never spoken to this stranger in my life, how can she know if im creepy or not.
Real=Saw woman was attracted too. Chose not too approach
Mental colouring=Everything else
Am I close?
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