fear
Five months ago I woke up with crippling anxiety around a project I just knew I had to build. Every morning came with a new wave of "what ifs". What if I fail. What if it goes wrong. What if I ruin everything. I used to bulldoze through those thoughts thinking I crushed them.
However, that usually ends up with hitting walls haha. Often in very spectacular fashion.
Now I practice a different method. I lean into the fear. Dismantle it. 99,99% of the cases, none of that anxiety is rooted in reality. It's my system trying to warn me for shit that doesn't exist.
Following your dreams / purpose / mission... it rarely feels soft. It drags you straight toward the stuff you're scared of. That's why most people never follow it at all.
The moment you make a real move toward the thing you want, resistance shows up instantly. Mental blocks. Random chaos. Your body acting up. Ego stories about why you should slow down or pick a safer path. (or saying "you don't have tine haha). People even get sick the moment they finally commit. I have seen it too many times to ignore.
Few people realise all this. A lot of it happens subconsciously.
It is a collision. It is the moment your old self starts fighting for survival.
If something scares you and still feels true, move toward it.
The resistance is proof you are aimed in the right direction.
I am building this community to help men with all this.
To dream big, get after it, and find support and accountability along the way.
You guys are early, I appreciate you all for being here.
So tell me, are you going after your goals, or are you playing it safe? Are you preparing some magic for 2026? It's go time.
Rich
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PS: If you know more guys that would thrive here, bring them over.
I am gonna raise prices exponentially soon.
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