I had asked previously if it was even realistic for me to consider coaching when I'm not fully healed myself and this kind of goes along with it.. how do I look for blind spots in language or double binds the way it does in his coaching sessions if I cannot readily recognize those? I was relating more to the client and could understand what she was saying and didn't realize it was a problem until Ed pointed it out. So how can one coach like that or help someone if you can't recognize it easily the way he does?