I have come to the conclusion that I cannot pay my bills with other people's opinions. I sometimes limit myself and don't go forward with what I really want to do because I worry about people's negative opinions. Holding back has cost me dearly. And yet there is a place for seeking other people's input, opinion, and wisdom. The wisdom I need is to know when to take on those opinions as mine. In the end, I am responsible for everything in my life. Other people's opinions are not.