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3. Expert Coach Tasking: 30th April (Part 2)
One of your biggest problems with your clients
is helping them see miss alignment within themselves and their lives
Aligning Relationship Values (Part 2)
Today's session
we were building on your ability to understand
How to help your client assess
wheather they are achieving their partners values
This can be used in many contexts:
Help realign your clients relationship and or yours
Help your client get more fulfilled, purpose and happiness
Help your clients see the blind spots in their communication
Help your client asses a new or old career path so helps them make a decision
Helps your client make a decision between 2 things
Tasking
- Score what you think you give your partner or ex-partner (understand misalignment)
- Asses their score on what they think you give them
- Practise using the values system in a different context
Eg
Safety Needs:
- Do I make you feel safe in our relationship?
- How do you know you are safe in our relationship?
- What needs to happen for you to feel safe?
- What would you like me to do to make you feel safe?
Variety Needs:
- Do I make your life fun?
- Do you have enough variety in your life or would you like to do more fun things?
- What needs to happen for you to feel safe?
- What would you like me to do to make you life more fun?
Individual Needs:
- Do I give you enough space?
- Would you like more?
- Do I support you in your own personal achieviments?
- How would you like me to support you further?
Harmonious Needs:
- Do you feel we do enough thing together?
- Would you like do more things together?
- How many things would make you happy?
- Are there anythings that I do not do that you would like me to do together?
Special Needs
- Do I make you feel special?
- What do I need to do, say, think, or touch for you to know that you are special to me?
Love Needs
- Do you feel loved by me
- How would you know if you were loved by me
- Would you like me to do anything else so that you would know that you were loved by me?
Growth Needs:
- Do you feel like we are growing together?
- Can I do anything else to help you feel like we are?
- Do you think I stop your growth in anyway?
Contribution Needs:
- Do you feel like we are giving beyond ourselves?
- Can I do anything else to help you feel like we are giving beyond ourselves?
- Do you think I stop your growth in anyway?
1. Safety Needs -
2. Variety Needs –
3. Individual Needs -
4. Harmonious Needs -
5. Special
6. Love
7. Growth
8. Contribution
CAN I ASK YOU A LITTLE FAVOUR?
Can you share on this post below
It really helps others believe they can do it
and helps us document your own personal journey
- What do you love the most about the ECA Membership?
- What is your biggest belief shift so far?
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3. Expert Coach Tasking: 30th April (Part 2)
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