I take 100% responsibility for my life.
Today this means allowing myself to be imperfect. I am a perfectionist to my core, and I know why and I know where it comes from and I have been working on it. It comes from the belief that what I do only matters if it is perfect and that is tied to the belief that I need to redeem myself due to trauma I went through as a child. It goes so deep...lol.
But anyway, the responsibility that I take is to allow myself to make mistakes. Sit with them. See that nothing falls apart. I don't lose friends. My house doesn't burn down. I don't get hit by lightning. No earthquakes, no tsunamis. It really doesn't make much of a difference. So I need to continue to do the mindset work to let it go. That's 100% my responsibility.