As a survivor of both family and intimate partner violence and narcissism; and as a bereaved sister; is it appropriate to nîçhe as a women's domestic violence recovery and women's empowerment coach? and as a sibling bereavement coach having chosen what will be thirty seven years ago in april to carry the coffin of my little baby brother liamgearóid through the church yard to his final resting place at only nine i made that conscious choice as unbelievable as it may read - i had my reason for so doing; so is nîçhing in these two areas acceptable and appropriate?