Let me be blunt: Most outreach sucks.
It’s generic. It’s lazy. It’s a copy-paste job that gets ignored.
And it’s no wonder people aren’t getting replies.
Here’s the thing: People don’t respond to robots—they respond to humans.
If you want to stand out in your outreach, you NEED to personalize. And no, I’m not talking about just throwing their first name into the email. That’s the bare minimum.
Here’s how to personalize outreach that actually gets replies:
1. Lead with Something Specific
Find something unique about the prospect and mention it in the first line.
Example:
“Hey [Name], saw your recent post about [specific topic]—I had the exact same problem last year.”
This shows you’ve done your homework. You’re not just another random email in their inbox.
2. Reference Their Business Pain Points
Don’t pitch your service—address their pain. Mention a specific challenge you know they’re facing.
Example:
“I noticed your agency focuses on scaling e-commerce brands. Most of our clients in that space struggle with getting consistent leads—sound familiar?”
When you show that you understand their business, it opens the door for real conversation.
3. Offer a Relevant Solution
Your offer should connect DIRECTLY to their pain point. Don’t send a generic pitch.
Example:
“We’ve helped agencies like yours increase lead flow by 30% in the last quarter. If you’re looking for similar results, let’s chat.”
This frames your solution as relevant and tailored to them.
4. Don’t Overdo It
Personalization doesn’t mean a long-winded essay. Be brief and to the point. Too much fluff kills interest.
Example:
“Hey [Name], loved your recent podcast episode on scaling agencies. If you’re open to it, I’d love to share how we helped similar businesses book more sales calls. Up for a quick chat?”
Short. Relevant. Direct.
Final Thoughts:
Personalization isn’t optional anymore—it’s a requirement. The more specific you are, the more likely you’ll stand out and get replies.
Anyway, this is not a sales CTA or anything like that but I am a huge advocate for networking so I am always open to connecting with other entrepreneurs, feel free to comment, ask me questions and even shoot over a dm.