DAY 4: The Spirit of Fear, Confusion & Identity Crisis

Ashley Lunnon

9d • Free Series

“For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.” — 2 Timothy 1:7

Let’s make it plain:

Your child wasn’t created to blend in, shrink back, or question who they are.

They were born with divine identity, but the enemy knows if he can confuse them, he can control them.

Fear and confusion go hand in hand.

They show up when your child:

Can’t make decisions without melting down
Constantly changes their personality around others
Imitates the culture but rejects correction
Is afraid to pray out loud, speak up, or stand apart
Struggles to know who they are, what they believe, or why they matter

This isn’t just “developmental.”

It’s a war for identity.

And if we don’t confront it, they’ll take on labels God never gave them.

And let’s be real the world is discipling your child 24/7.

Music. Social media. School environments. Trends. Gender confusion. Spiritual compromise.

If your voice isn’t louder and your prayers aren’t stronger they’ll become who the world says they are.

But no more.

Today, we call them back.

Back to truth. Back to boldness. Back to God’s original design.

We don’t parent from fear… we parent from authority.

And we won’t just tell them who they are we’ll cast down every lie trying to tell them otherwise.

WARFARE PRAYER:

Father, thank You for creating my child with purpose, identity, and destiny.

I rebuke the spirit of fear, confusion, insecurity, and identity crisis that’s been tormenting their mind.

I break the power of every lie spoken over them by culture, by media, by peers, by wounded authority, and even by my own mouth.

I declare that they are not anxious. They are not confused. They are not lost.

They are chosen. Set apart. Called. And known by You.

I cancel every assignment of the enemy trying to blur their purpose and rewrite their design.

I silence the voice of fear and loose the sound mind of Christ over them.

I speak clarity, courage, confidence, and conviction.

They will not conform. They will be transformed.

They will not chase acceptance. They will walk in authority.

Let their true identity rise.

Let every false label fall.

Seal them, God 🧡 mind, heart, and spirit in Your truth.

In Jesus’ name Amen

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