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🌿 HOW TO ENGAGE HERE (SAFELY & AUTHENTICALLY) 🌿
A nervous-system safe guide for Human Being Connection Welcome, family. This space is different on purpose. Most communities teach performance.This one teaches presence. Before you post, comment, or respond, please read this once. It will help you feel safer and help others feel safe with you. 💛 OUR CORE AGREEMENT We engage here as human beings, not roles, not masks, not “who we should be.” You never owe: a perfect response a healed answer a public story emotional exposure You are always allowed to: pause respond simply say “I’m not sure” say nothing at all Connection is felt, not forced. 🌱 HOW TO ENGAGE SAFELY When you comment or post, try this: 1️⃣ Speak from YOUR body, not about someone elseUse “I feel…” instead of advice or fixing. 2️⃣ Share what’s true nowNot what sounds wise. Not what you think you should feel. 3️⃣ Less story, more sensation (if possible)You can say: “My chest softened reading this.”• “This brought a knot to my stomach.”“I don’t have words yet, but I feel something.” That’s enough. 4️⃣ You never have to explain yourselfYour truth doesn’t need justification here. 🛑 WHAT WE DON’T DO HERE To protect nervous system safety, we avoid: • diagnosing others • giving unsolicited advice • debating someone’s lived experience • spiritual bypassing (“everything happens for a reason”) • rushing someone toward healing Presence > fixing. 🌿 HOW TO COMMENT IF YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT TO SAY These are always welcome: • “I resonate.” • “I feel seen by this.” • “This landed in my body.” • “Thank you for sharing.” • ❤️ or 🌱 Silence is also participation. 🤍 IF YOU GET ACTIVATED That doesn’t mean you did anything wrong. Pause.Feel your body.Come back when (or if) it feels right. This is a space to practice staying, not to perform safety. ✨ REMEMBER Your presence matters here even quietly.Your pace is honored.Your nervous system leads. We are building connection slowly, truthfully, and together. You belong here exactly as you are. 💛 Sherry & Lee
Break away
Heres a post i am sharing privately . After a few weeks of doing some Root Camp with Lee and Sherry I have been doing a couple of road trips in a neighbours camper van here in the UK . Some say i am running however this is recouping and I am just remembering to regulate a nervous system in whatever way works . Much Love Soul Family ❤️❤️
Break away
10 Rules of Human Being Connection Nobody Taught Us
Most people were taught how to behave around another human being. Very few people were shown how to remain connected to themselves while another human being is present. So let us make connection a little more human. 1. The body gets to answer before the mouth does. The mind loves an immediate response. The body may need a breath first. 2. Curiosity gets the seat that judgment used to occupy. Instead of asking, “What is wrong with them?” Let the body ask, “What happened inside them?” 3. The feeling is allowed to exist without becoming a verdict. “I feel forgotten” is vulnerability. “You never care about me” is the mind passing sentence. 4. Nobody has to win the conversation. The mind wants a winner. Connection wants both human beings to remain in the room. 5. The reach deserves to be noticed. The angry text may be a reach. The silence may be a reach. The joke may be a reach wearing a funny little disguise. 6. The body does not have to perform connection. The nervous system may be quiet. The nervous system may tremble. The nervous system may need time before it can stay open. 7. Vulnerability is openness, not a confession contest. The mind can reveal every secret while the body stays closed. The body can say three honest words and open an entire relationship. 8. The familiar does not automatically mean love. The body may chase what resembles childhood. The body may overlook the human being who is actually present. 9. Connection returns to your body before it reaches another human being. The mind cannot abandon you and then demand that another person make you feel whole. The reach must find you there too. 10. Pain gets company before it gets advice. The mind rushes to fix. Connection stays long enough to feel. Pain with nobody there stays a knot. Pain that is met can finally open. Which rule made your body pause? Which rule would change the way you connect today? There is no wrong answer here. The body is already telling the truth.
Question regarding pain when wanting to do something
I have a question that I'm feeling stuck about, and it occurred to me that I could ask it here... I've been noticing how much pain and also a fight/flight response I have when I find myself wanting to do something, especially involving some kind of self-expression. For instance, even just making a social media post about something I care about and am interested in--as in, something I feel is important to me, and that I am going to share outwardly in some way. I get so triggered from within that I become stuck, tired, feeling terrible, can no longer use my mind to say what I wanted to say, or think what I was thinking--in pain--and then go into doubt about what I wanted to do. The mind activates and negatively attacks me. I feel conflicting forces in my body, and then just feel sick. I find myself unsure then of what to do. I usually don't do the thing, because I don't want to do it in that painful state. So then I say, well, I will get to it later, when I will feel better...then it comes up again later, I don't feel better...I drop it again....So do I need to be going into my pain, when this occurs? Does this happen because the thing I want to do yet then struggle "trying" to do is connected to so much pain? When I start doing it, I experience the pain--and when I stop or don't do it I feel defeated. Should I just do it anyway? Through all of this there is much pain, I am feeling this very much right now.
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