I love you unconditionally and all I want is for you to have what you want for yourself. However, if what you want for yourself doesn’t provide what is needed in the relationship we desire to build together, my unconditional love for myself allows me to let go of you, and choose someone who will be willing to put the effort needed into building the relationship we both want out of love for each other, not out of obligation or fear of losing one another.
It’s important to have the freedom to be ourselves, but, if we want to build something new and of value for both of us to grow, we must also be willing to put in the effort required from both sides.