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Dec '25 (edited) • General discussion
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being magnetic is about being "congruent"
congruent meaning your thoughts, feelings and actions are aligned
people who are congruent are people who feel safe
you can feel in your body when someone is congruent or not
have you ever met someone who said all the right things but under the surface you could feel something was "off?"
this is common in people who are "nice"
being nice is a subconscious pattern that says if I am nice to you… you will validate me or be nice to me back
its a subconscious manipulative pattern that means well… but keeps people TRAPPED
being kind is different… not attached to outcome and with no agenda
being "nice" is incongruent and sends the energy of not being a "safe person"
it kept me trapped for years until I shed it
back in the day I would feel one way, but say another
I wouldn’t share what I actually thought
I would say yes to things I didn’t really want to do
I would sugar coat things or tolerate energy that deep down i resented myself for
I would abandon myself for others and that would have me angry and disappointed in myself
I was choosing to NOT be congruent because as a kid… it didn’t feel I was allowed to
I made a subconscious choice as a kid from having a controlling authority figure
I am not safe unless I say the right things even if its not true for me
I would then abandon myself in order to feel safe with other people
The paradox is then I would put out an energy that wasn’t safe for others
Everything changed when I began to embrace authenticity over approval
I began to express how I really felt
Even if that meant others would feel tension
I knew then that THEIR tension was not my thing to manage
I could feel safe in my body because I was being CONGRUENT to my true self
And how people responded wasn’t my thing to manage anymore
I changed the values that I live by and that changed everything
Your identity is comprised of who you believe you are
Which is a combination of the values you life by
And when you change that everything changes
Anyways hope you have a great day and remember…
Your magnetism is in your ability to be congruent to the real you :)
Much love,
Aaron Doughty
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